Yardies at Home and a Farrin (part17)

[Islandwoman 0]

Hey Island Woman ( Waving)

Hi Philly! I've been hanging out on your settee in the garden (in my crazy-ol-mind )

[dancehallquana 5]

Sorry NatPat...I don't think so. I may come on to read the guides for AOS/ROC...but I won't be a yardie poster anymore. I'm tired of being the underdog...the person everyone loves to hate because I post something that makes people think or maybe a little uncomfortable. I'm tired of hearing about the private PMs discussing what I post and how rude it was or xyz...I'm tired of dealing with fakeness and sometimey friendships. I can't stand cowardice. Those that I am truly friends with know who they are...and they know that I will always be a phone call away.

Right now, I am posting because A is not here...I'm sitting in a boring training class for another 4 weeks...so why not.

dyam my girl, u not holding no bars today,

[sus 70]

Anyone know anyone in St. Ann's Bay who wants to earn some extra money cooking / cleaning for DJ this week?

I can ask...my mil if one of her sisters would like to. Did you find anyone yet before I call her?

Thanks for the offer Dillon -

thanks for the help from his family but its really between the two of you

you not marrying his family you're marrying him

Something I have been reminding myself of daily in the past few weeks

Sorry NatPat...I don't think so. I may come on to read the guides for AOS/ROC...but I won't be a yardie poster anymore. I'm tired of being the underdog...the person everyone loves to hate because I post something that makes people think or maybe a little uncomfortable. I'm tired of hearing about the private PMs discussing what I post and how rude it was or xyz...I'm tired of dealing with fakeness and sometimey friendships. I can't stand cowardice. Those that I am truly friends with know who they are...and they know that I will always be a phone call away.

Right now, I am posting because A is not here...I'm sitting in a boring training class for another 4 weeks...so why not.

What I bolded disgusts me - there is much on this site that is so petty and juvenile - the Yardie thread has pretty much always been one of the areas where people keep it real - we might not agree, but I thought we were all grownups? Why resort to the petty childish ish?

Jawi, you have been one of my rocks through my struggles - You don't pull punches, but what you say comes with love and support - which has been much appreciated.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Sorry NatPat...I don't think so. I may come on to read the guides for AOS/ROC...but I won't be a yardie poster anymore. I'm tired of being the underdog...the person everyone loves to hate because I post something that makes people think or maybe a little uncomfortable. I'm tired of hearing about the private PMs discussing what I post and how rude it was or xyz...I'm tired of dealing with fakeness and sometimey friendships. I can't stand cowardice. Those that I am truly friends with know who they are...and they know that I will always be a phone call away.

Right now, I am posting because A is not here...I'm sitting in a boring training class for another 4 weeks...so why not.

I REALLY hope this is not about me cause ain't nobody PM'd me a thing

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and everyone has their own perception Jawi.

That is the spice of life! Nuh make nobody run you!

i didn't even know that went on

surely jawi you're not gonna let what a couple ppl say deter you

but then again i understand your stance

[dancehallquana 5]

ya'll don't be sad bout jawi gone.. she is live and in color on FB right?? if i remember correctly... its been so long since i seen it LOL

all ya'll will be gone and lef too when ya man come probably.. not that many stay on vj strong after di usband reach.. might peek back in during LOC .. so when its all over ya'll just come an visit me when u can

Mi still deh ya!

YEP!!! philly is as nosy as i am.. we cyaan stay away.. man or not LOL..

okay shaunsgirl, dillon, kimmy (hotlegz), ells.. or maybe not , finesse (i guess) all stay afta dem man reacy..

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

but the thing is there are not THAT many posters in the yardie thread

when you really check it out, it boils down to less than 20 regular posters, estimating roughly

its probably 2 or 3 ppl talking sh!t and if that's the case, they are entitled to their opinion

i'm kinda disappointed, i was hoping the yardie thread would be different but ah so it go

[finesse 3]

so who di sneaky PMers?

CALL DEM NAME!! MAKE IT PLAIN!!!

but the thing is there are not THAT many posters in the yardie thread

when you really check it out, it boils down to less than 20 regular posters, estimating roughly

its probably 2 or 3 ppl talking sh!t and if that's the case, they are entitled to their opinion

i'm kinda disappointed, i was hoping the yardie thread would be different but ah so it go

mi talk shyt pon di public board!!!

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

so who di sneaky PMers?

CALL DEM NAME!! MAKE IT PLAIN!!!

lol it wouldn't be you if yuh never say dat

[sus 70]

so who di sneaky PMers?

CALL DEM NAME!! MAKE IT PLAIN!!!

but the thing is there are not THAT many posters in the yardie thread

when you really check it out, it boils down to less than 20 regular posters, estimating roughly

its probably 2 or 3 ppl talking sh!t and if that's the case, they are entitled to their opinion

i'm kinda disappointed, i was hoping the yardie thread would be different but ah so it go

mi talk shyt pon di public board!!!

Mi too, finesse - I got somethin to say - you all will here it!

[finesse 3]

jawi vs. vj yardie thread

ding ding ding

[finesse 3]

mstee vs. vj yardie thread

ding ding ding

[JAPrincess 27]

so who di sneaky PMers?

CALL DEM NAME!! MAKE IT PLAIN!!!

finesse!

[Islandwoman 0]

Our mutual friend E that introduced us (me and A) is back in Jamaica because his younger sister died from Sickle Cell...she was only 21. I feel horrible because I should have been there too. A is very spiritual but he is telling me that he can't manage sitting in the church during the ceremony. He will be there...but he will stay outside the church because he doesn't like to see people cry and mourn. If I was there, he would be going in...and we would both support our friend.

Funny thing is is that A still hasn't figured out how to tell E that we are getting married. I was casually dating E when he introduced me to A. I told E that our thing was cool...but I couldn't deny the attraction between me and A. E was upset, but said that he understood and he knew that there was a mutal attraction...he could feel it. A doesn't want to hurt him...so he has to finally face the music and tell E that he is moving to Atlanta for us to get married. He is a nervous wreck about it. I always asked him why he let 5 years go by without telling E that he was in love with me. He told me that E told him how much he loved me...but I wasn't interested in another LDR or going through the process again. E had never told me that his feelings were that strong for me. I thought we were just kicking it so I wouldn't be the 5th wheel with my girls and their guys/husbands.

So E knows that I was interested but I'm not sure he knows about me and A's relationship since he moved to New York.

First Jawi, I'm so sorry to hear about that girl - that is so young to lose life. I'm like A ....I can't get myself into that church and if I do, I'm in the back. The sadness there will be unbearable.

My opinion re: E - A (or you) should tell him. You know how Jamaica rolls and he is going to find out almost immediately after A steps on that plane. Better to hear it from people he cares about than someone who is gossiping. Just my two cents....

[dancehallquana 5]

Sorry NatPat...I don't think so. I may come on to read the guides for AOS/ROC...but I won't be a yardie poster anymore. I'm tired of being the underdog...the person everyone loves to hate because I post something that makes people think or maybe a little uncomfortable. I'm tired of hearing about the private PMs discussing what I post and how rude it was or xyz...I'm tired of dealing with fakeness and sometimey friendships. I can't stand cowardice. Those that I am truly friends with know who they are...and they know that I will always be a phone call away.

Right now, I am posting because A is not here...I'm sitting in a boring training class for another 4 weeks...so why not.

I REALLY hope this is not about me cause ain't nobody PM'd me a thing

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and everyone has their own perception Jawi.

That is the spice of life! Nuh make nobody run you!

ja p its been other issues in the past .. so thats why alot of us can understand jawi's decision. doan worry my dear..

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

so yardies we run 2 ppl today

first jawi and now mstee