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[lovica_l 0]

i have all these comments given to me all the time, but i love him and it does not matter

we can all relate to you!

HAHA i love your guys responses, maybe i should try that

[dcrespo314 0]

Hi we applied in March for K-1 VIsa, my fiancee lives in the UK. We already received our first Notice and are awaiting our second. I don't really have any questions, but I do like that I have a place where I can vent about "HOW FRIGGIN' MUCH I MISS HIM" and how tired I am of everyone asking me if he is marrying me just for his papers. I find it insulting, frustrating and dissapointing that I almost have to declare and explain our love. I honestly find that at times I am not prepared for this line of questioning. It feels as though I have to have some sort of explanation in the wings, besides we love each other and want to marry. I don't want to over-react to it, as I know and try to remember that it is coming from a place of love. So any suggestions?

hey, look the only advice I have for you is to ignore it and dont let it get to you, iv been asked this question a few times my self, by people that care about me and just looking for me and making sure , and others that just want to be jerks, the first time I didn't get offended but it bothered me a lil bit, then i realized the hell with what they think, i know i love her, i know she loves me and in a few months we will be together starting the begining of something special that will last for the rest of our days on this planet. So keep you chin up dont get stressed out by people asking these types of question and soon all this will be over and there will be no need to explain to them if its real or not, when they see the two of you together in love they will know