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[rheanick 42]

Her certification will not be needed at all here in the United States no matter what state, i have already checked, me made plans that we settled on a few months ago and completely agreed on everything then on the 11th hour she changes her mind and when I tell her about what we planned in which i told her in a civil matter then she easily got angry.

She sent me a text message, telling me if i send her mom some money her mom would stay out of the way and spend her time at the ####### fights.

Some of you may be thinking that this is some story of some sort, you can call me at 702-502-3523 if you dont believe me. I have been very patient with her i believe in GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE THAT WAIT that is exactly what i did.

I tried calling her tonite and no answer, so I will text her and give her a 24 hour ultimatum, I am tired of waiting for her for all these years. Its time she comes here.

Reading your story... If i'm in your shoes... I would be happy not to marry this woman. Just cancel your petition.

And next time... dont give money to any woman.

[meatspin 0]

Her certification will not be needed at all here in the United States no matter what state, i have already checked, me made plans that we settled on a few months ago and completely agreed on everything then on the 11th hour she changes her mind and when I tell her about what we planned in which i told her in a civil matter then she easily got angry.

She sent me a text message, telling me if i send her mom some money her mom would stay out of the way and spend her time at the ####### fights.

Some of you may be thinking that this is some story of some sort, you can call me at 702-502-3523 if you dont believe me. I have been very patient with her i believe in GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE THAT WAIT that is exactly what i did.

I tried calling her tonite and no answer, so I will text her and give her a 24 hour ultimatum, I am tired of waiting for her for all these years. Its time she comes here.

Reading your story... If i'm in your shoes... I would be happy not to marry this woman. Just cancel your petition.

And next time... dont give money to any woman.

yeah I am starting to think I am an IDIOT

[Raeka 0]

She wont talk to you because she's not getting what she wants, in short she's being a BRAT! which is so unfair.. She's trying to torture you mentally and i'm SURE she's thinking that soon you'll just give in. Since she's not ready to talk to you, then give her space. You've been their night and shining armour. I'm pretty sure that when things go wrong, when they need financial assistance, or when they get hungry, they'll remember you and she'll be the one to really haunt you.

Her certification will not be needed at all here in the United States no matter what state, i have already checked, me made plans that we settled on a few months ago and completely agreed on everything then on the 11th hour she changes her mind and when I tell her about what we planned in which i told her in a civil matter then she easily got angry.

She sent me a text message, telling me if i send her mom some money her mom would stay out of the way and spend her time at the ####### fights.

Some of you may be thinking that this is some story of some sort, you can call me at 702-502-3523 if you dont believe me. I have been very patient with her i believe in GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE THAT WAIT that is exactly what i did.

I tried calling her tonite and no answer, so I will text her and give her a 24 hour ultimatum, I am tired of waiting for her for all these years. Its time she comes here.

Reading your story... If i'm in your shoes... I would be happy not to marry this woman. Just cancel your petition.

And next time... dont give money to any woman.

yeah I am starting to think I am an IDIOT

[sasha414 0]

Her certification will not be needed at all here in the United States no matter what state, i have already checked, me made plans that we settled on a few months ago and completely agreed on everything then on the 11th hour she changes her mind and when I tell her about what we planned in which i told her in a civil matter then she easily got angry.

She sent me a text message, telling me if i send her mom some money her mom would stay out of the way and spend her time at the ####### fights.

Some of you may be thinking that this is some story of some sort, you can call me at 702-502-3523 if you dont believe me. I have been very patient with her i believe in GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE THAT WAIT that is exactly what i did.

I tried calling her tonite and no answer, so I will text her and give her a 24 hour ultimatum, I am tired of waiting for her for all these years. Its time she comes here.

i totally believe you and i know the others here who posted believe you also. you sound like you have been very supportive of her all these years and even put her thru school. i guess she got spoiled and now wants you to send more money to her family to spend at cockfights. you have been given good advice here and i hope things work out for you. keep us posted.

[jom 4]

Her certification will not be needed at all here in the United States no matter what state, i have already checked, me made plans that we settled on a few months ago and completely agreed on everything then on the 11th hour she changes her mind and when I tell her about what we planned in which i told her in a civil matter then she easily got angry.

She sent me a text message, telling me if i send her mom some money her mom would stay out of the way and spend her time at the ####### fights.

Some of you may be thinking that this is some story of some sort, you can call me at 702-502-3523 if you dont believe me. I have been very patient with her i believe in GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE THAT WAIT that is exactly what i did.

I tried calling her tonite and no answer, so I will text her and give her a 24 hour ultimatum, I am tired of waiting for her for all these years. Its time she comes here.

This text message coming from a fellow Filipina just makes me sick. Im sorry to say but you deserve better.

[luckymom 0]

Wow! That's a reflection of how their life in the Philippines is. With that, you can now assess what is your purpose to them. Again, this is a case that leads people to think how we filipinas are. That's a shame and I'm really mad in this type of people. I don't know why you continue on supporting them all these years. It's ok to help the her (regarding her schooling) because that's very generous of you and I salute you for that. But giving in to her mom's wishes, I find it weird. You know in your heart that you're being used by now, I suppose. Anyway, it's up to you if you continue this scenario. With the hard economy these days, going to cockfights is not really advisable. People has to think about the basic needs in life before their vices.

[Brian and Dona 0]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

MY opinion is that she is delaying the trip over here for some reason. If she trully wanted to be with you, she would drop everything and come over when it is time. And the pure thought of them trying to bribe you for money to get her mom to stay out of the wa just makes me mad. It makes me mad because some people cannot get the "everyone from america is rich" thought out of their heads. We are not all rich. In my opinion she might have other motives beside being with you. I find it very fishy that she would not want to stay with you as long as she can. The only reason why I would not find it strange that she wants to go back is for health or family reasons. I would self evaluate the whole situation before making a decision. I hope for the best for you.

[meatspin 0]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

MY opinion is that she is delaying the trip over here for some reason. If she trully wanted to be with you, she would drop everything and come over when it is time. And the pure thought of them trying to bribe you for money to get her mom to stay out of the wa just makes me mad. It makes me mad because some people cannot get the "everyone from america is rich" thought out of their heads. We are not all rich. In my opinion she might have other motives beside being with you. I find it very fishy that she would not want to stay with you as long as she can. The only reason why I would not find it strange that she wants to go back is for health or family reasons. I would self evaluate the whole situation before making a decision. I hope for the best for you.

I spoke to her earlier this morning and apparently she is a psycho, I got her answer and she said that her mind is set, so I told her that there is no need for this relationship to go on any further, she said "NO PROBLEM, BUT FOR NOW I WILL HATE YOU". So that puts a end on that chapter, si frustrating that time and money was spent on this for nothing, better that it happened now then having it happen when when she is hear, wow, i guess it was just never meant to be, a shattered dream it is.

Oh well...............

life moves on.

[john & jean 37]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

MY opinion is that she is delaying the trip over here for some reason. If she trully wanted to be with you, she would drop everything and come over when it is time. And the pure thought of them trying to bribe you for money to get her mom to stay out of the wa just makes me mad. It makes me mad because some people cannot get the "everyone from america is rich" thought out of their heads. We are not all rich. In my opinion she might have other motives beside being with you. I find it very fishy that she would not want to stay with you as long as she can. The only reason why I would not find it strange that she wants to go back is for health or family reasons. I would self evaluate the whole situation before making a decision. I hope for the best for you.

I spoke to her earlier this morning and apparently she is a psycho, I got her answer and she said that her mind is set, so I told her that there is no need for this relationship to go on any further, she said "NO PROBLEM, BUT FOR NOW I WILL HATE YOU". So that puts a end on that chapter, si frustrating that time and money was spent on this for nothing, better that it happened now then having it happen when when she is hear, wow, i guess it was just never meant to be, a shattered dream it is.

Oh well...............

life moves on.

WELL DAMM, MAYBE THAT IDIOT PHASE WAS A TEMPORARY CONDITION!!!!

[rheanick 42]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

MY opinion is that she is delaying the trip over here for some reason. If she trully wanted to be with you, she would drop everything and come over when it is time. And the pure thought of them trying to bribe you for money to get her mom to stay out of the wa just makes me mad. It makes me mad because some people cannot get the "everyone from america is rich" thought out of their heads. We are not all rich. In my opinion she might have other motives beside being with you. I find it very fishy that she would not want to stay with you as long as she can. The only reason why I would not find it strange that she wants to go back is for health or family reasons. I would self evaluate the whole situation before making a decision. I hope for the best for you.

I spoke to her earlier this morning and apparently she is a psycho, I got her answer and she said that her mind is set, so I told her that there is no need for this relationship to go on any further, she said "NO PROBLEM, BUT FOR NOW I WILL HATE YOU". So that puts a end on that chapter, si frustrating that time and money was spent on this for nothing, better that it happened now then having it happen when when she is hear, wow, i guess it was just never meant to be, a shattered dream it is.

Oh well...............

life moves on.

You are better off without her. There are still lots of good people.

[macutelit 0]

Her certification will not be needed at all here in the United States no matter what state, i have already checked, me made plans that we settled on a few months ago and completely agreed on everything then on the 11th hour she changes her mind and when I tell her about what we planned in which i told her in a civil matter then she easily got angry.

She sent me a text message, telling me if i send her mom some money her mom would stay out of the way and spend her time at the ####### fights.

Some of you may be thinking that this is some story of some sort, you can call me at 702-502-3523 if you dont believe me. I have been very patient with her i believe in GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE THAT WAIT that is exactly what i did.

I tried calling her tonite and no answer, so I will text her and give her a 24 hour ultimatum, I am tired of waiting for her for all these years. Its time she comes here.

Reading your story... If i'm in your shoes... I would be happy not to marry this woman. Just cancel your petition.

And next time... dont give money to any woman.

[jsnearline 2]

The very first piece of advice I got from friends before I made my first visit to meet my wife was that if she or her family asked me for money, it would be a RED FLAG and if they did so, I should call the whole thing off. Even now, any money that my wife sends home comes from what she earns from her job.

[sasha414 0]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

MY opinion is that she is delaying the trip over here for some reason. If she trully wanted to be with you, she would drop everything and come over when it is time. And the pure thought of them trying to bribe you for money to get her mom to stay out of the wa just makes me mad. It makes me mad because some people cannot get the "everyone from america is rich" thought out of their heads. We are not all rich. In my opinion she might have other motives beside being with you. I find it very fishy that she would not want to stay with you as long as she can. The only reason why I would not find it strange that she wants to go back is for health or family reasons. I would self evaluate the whole situation before making a decision. I hope for the best for you.

I spoke to her earlier this morning and apparently she is a psycho, I got her answer and she said that her mind is set, so I told her that there is no need for this relationship to go on any further, she said "NO PROBLEM, BUT FOR NOW I WILL HATE YOU". So that puts a end on that chapter, si frustrating that time and money was spent on this for nothing, better that it happened now then having it happen when when she is hear, wow, i guess it was just never meant to be, a shattered dream it is.

Oh well...............

life moves on.

i guess she used you like an ATM machine. im so sorry this happened but like you said, better this happened now than later on when she is already in america. always remember, things happen for a reason and i wish you the very best in the future.

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

You are not an IDIOT...but you have a good heart.

But I unfortunately learned the HARD way, the there are peoples in this world (FILIPINAs or otherwise) that will take advantage of anyone with decent heart.

I am in almost similar shoes as you are but for completely different reasons;

it is really hard to digest being so close to the goal of being together and just see the all thing just disintegrate at the very end....

But learning from my previous marriage...it is better to end something now then to end after many years ...because that is/will be even more painful.

[meatspin 0]

I dont know wherelse to post this,

this is the situation, The K3 has been approved for my Fiancee, she will be coming here in June, but lately she just told me she wants to come for only 3 months then go back to the Philippines so she can take her nursing board exam.

It has really gotten me irritated to the point to where I was thinking of calling everything off.

Then I was thinking this, if she were to come here, maybe within 3 months she might change her mind and decide to stay.

any opinions ? am i an idiot or what ?

I would really appreciate it.

You are not an IDIOT...but you have a good heart.

But I unfortunately learned the HARD way, the there are peoples in this world (FILIPINAs or otherwise) that will take advantage of anyone with decent heart.

I am in almost similar shoes as you are but for completely different reasons;

it is really hard to digest being so close to the goal of being together and just see the all thing just disintegrate at the very end....

But learning from my previous marriage...it is better to end something now then to end after many years ...because that is/will be even more painful.

I will just consider what i spent on her as a form of charity, I know God is watching her and he will be the one to judge her for her actions.

She has some nerve to tell me that she hates me after all i have done, and when I did mention all of the good i have done for her she mentioned the word "SOMBAT"

whatever............

what goes around comes around.

when Karma comes back it hits harder.