Stressed!!!!!

[beautiful 0]

Hello, All my yardies and anyone that views this post.

I am really stressed out right now, any good advice will help out! Well, I thought everything was going ok until my mother decides she wants to back out and not help me sponsor my fiance. My fiance has an appointment on Tuesday to drop off the DS-230. And I am expecting to hear something from the embassy regarding an interview date possibly in July (this is what they told me when I needed help on a question) Hopefully after he turns in the DS-230 on Tuesday I should hear from them and we have a date in July. (I am going to keep my fingers crossed)

Well, I am a Registered Nurse, and I just recently started working again. I have been licensed for almost two years. I have not worked the full two years due to problems with my health. I have a heart condition. The past year has been crazy for me, in and out of the hospital. When I was working steady I had a decent pay check way over expected poverty guidelines. I can say that I am blessed again because my health condition is well under control now and my cardiologist is awesome. My doctor finally got to the bottom of a proper medical regimen and I have been doing 100% better. He even took me off my cardiac medications and I have not needed them. God has truly been blessing me. So I have been working again with the approval of my cardiologist. He says I have no limitations either, Full time work is ok. All I have to do now is follow up appointments and my last one was again good. To make a long story short I have started working only for a few months now but it is full time and I make well over poverty guideline. (The only reason I was going to have my mother co sponsor was because of my gaps of unemployment due to my medical, I felt it was better to have a plan b just in case. And if I did not need to use her that would be good too but I wanted to have her paper work with me just in case)

My supervisor states she has no problem with writing the employment letter and she would even state my potential for continued employment with the company. I also pick up prn nursing jobs on the side. But my full time job I make over 50,000 a year. I have not only filled for my fiance but his two children as well but his children will follow to join.

Only thing I could come up with is when I attend the interview, attach a letter explaining gaps of employment along with my salary now and I am capable of working full time (with my doctor's approval) I just hope that by me being a R.N that will help out also.

All I can do is pray at this point. I am so stressed out, all I have been doing is crying when I think about it because I feel we have got this far and why now this has to happen. My fiance tells me to relax and just keep praying and believing in god, because with god all things are possible. And that is what I have to do. I cannot start to make myself stressed out again knowing my past medical history. Hopefully the embassy will have some understanding.

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[justucia 0]

im sorry girl- i have no advice for you

im sure some of the vets will chime in

[NatPatBen 3]

All I can do is pray at this point. I am so stressed out, all I have been doing is crying when I think about it because I feel we have got this far and why now this has to happen. My fiance tells me to relax and just keep praying and believing in god, because with god all things are possible. And that is what I have to do. I cannot start to make myself stressed out again knowing my past medical history. Hopefully the embassy will have some understanding.

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The only advice I have is to note any other assets you have on the I-134: money in the bank, stocks, car if you own it, etc. I feel close to tears, too, over this process. I also know to believe & thank God for what he has, is, and will do... but I know that can be hard when staring in the face of something like this.

[justucia 0]

natpatben~ soon come!!!

[Lovesponge 0]

Hey beautiful, am so sorry you are going through this. Please stop stressing yourself out, its wonderful that your health condition is much better now, but you want to keep it that way and by stressing you are putting yourself at great risk.

I just had my interview Monday and from what I saw that I-134 was a crucial document and the previous year W2's with it. The employment letter may help but may not be enough to show stability. Is there anyone else that you trust to be a co-sponsor for you. It doesnt have to be family, any close friends? I suggest you get a co-sponsor because you just never know.

Dont worry God has a way of working things out.

[beautiful 0]

Hey beautiful, am so sorry you are going through this. Please stop stressing yourself out, its wonderful that your health condition is much better now, but you want to keep it that way and by stressing you are putting yourself at great risk.

I just had my interview Monday and from what I saw that I-134 was a crucial document and the previous year W2's with it. The employment letter may help but may not be enough to show stability. Is there anyone else that you trust to be a co-sponsor for you. It doesnt have to be family, any close friends? I suggest you get a co-sponsor because you just never know.

Dont worry God has a way of working things out.

Thanks for the advice thus far. He is going to ask one of his family members. Hopefully that would be the answer. I talked to my fiance again today and he told me not to worry and he also said he has this feeling my mother is still going to do it. He felt she was mad at the time and wanted to say something to me that she knew would hurt. (He stated people will do that all the time, especially if what you told them was the truth and they cannot accept that so they will try their best to do something that would hurt you)

We will see. I will keep everyone posted!

[NatPatBen 3]

... He felt she was mad at the time and wanted to say something to me that she knew would hurt. (He stated people will do that all the time, especially if what you told them was the truth and they cannot accept that so they will try their best to do something that would hurt you)

We will see. I will keep everyone posted!

That's a great point. You seem to have a man with a good head on his shoulders & is good at understanding people. Things will work out for you; all things work together for the good.

[beautiful 0]

... He felt she was mad at the time and wanted to say something to me that she knew would hurt. (He stated people will do that all the time, especially if what you told them was the truth and they cannot accept that so they will try their best to do something that would hurt you)

We will see. I will keep everyone posted!

That's a great point. You seem to have a man with a good head on his shoulders & is good at understanding people. Things will work out for you; all things work together for the good.

Thanks!

[RegAl 0]

... He felt she was mad at the time and wanted to say something to me that she knew would hurt. (He stated people will do that all the time, especially if what you told them was the truth and they cannot accept that so they will try their best to do something that would hurt you)

We will see. I will keep everyone posted!

That's a great point. You seem to have a man with a good head on his shoulders & is good at understanding people. Things will work out for you; all things work together for the good.

I agree with Nat and your fiance'... the people closet to you will do and say things to hurt you the most. I also think your Mom will reconsider and still co-sponsor for you...but look for a back-up just in case

[^KK^ 3]

Beautiful...I truly wish you the best.

KK