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ladies, I would be careful about how you'll throw around the word sole custody. Sole custody does not take away a parent right. I don't know any one's situation, but I think some of you are confusing sole custody with physical custody. I am not stating any of this to start a diagreement with anything that has been said on previous post, but as I sit here reading some of these comments, I just felt it was necessary to state this fact. A father, and mother have equal responsibility and rights regarding their child, unless they have SIGNED that right away. So, yes a Parent (father or mother) with the other only having physical custody, can refuse to grant permission for their child to leave their birth country.

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Dada.

hell what else i got to do..LOL.. though i may go sooner, like end of May,,, but life here consist of work, home, church, kids, so the ticker gives me something to look forward too

Like, Memorial Day weekend??? :whistle:

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Dada.

hell what else i got to do..LOL.. though i may go sooner, like end of May,,, but life here consist of work, home, church, kids, so the ticker gives me something to look forward too

Yeah it does but do you ever feel like your wishing you life away waiting for the next trip?? I do. Like everyday I look at my countdown here at work and I'm rushing myself to that point. Its crazy..

I feel you though I'm so stressed out all I keep thinking of is my likkle vaca. All my friends be like but yeah when you come back your troubles will still be here. I tell them I know but at least I can have a couple of days of nothing about them. When you go to JA you come back refreshed and ready to face them all because I know I have to solve them to leave again...LOL

Part of wonders if I enjoy sneaking away because its my umm how do I put it . O.k. put it like this I think I grew up wayyyyy to fast. Having kids, getting married all that. I jumped right out of high school and into the grown and sexy. Well I never got to be that young adult that partied and clubbed and went away to college and do the crazy things people do before they have kids and get married so am I now having a early life crisis where I’m like freak that I want to have fun?? Cause when I go to JA boy do I have fun. IDK just a thought...

Dada.

hell what else i got to do..LOL.. though i may go sooner, like end of May,,, but life here consist of work, home, church, kids, so the ticker gives me something to look forward too

Like, Memorial Day weekend??? :whistle:

Sus I was thinking the same thing... :devil:

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Good Morning ladies!

I'm new to the board although I've been reading your posts for quite some time now so I feel as though I know you guys already. I just filed my K1 earlier this week so I'm sure I'll be seeking support during this process. Oh Father! the anxiety of it all!

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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Hi Sus!

St. Mary...close to Ochi

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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ladies, I would be careful about how you'll throw around the word sole custody. Sole custody does not take away a parent right. I don't know any one's situation, but I think some of you are confusing sole custody with physical custody. I am not stating any of this to start a diagreement with anything that has been said on previous post, but as I sit here reading some of these comments, I just felt it was necessary to state this fact. A father, and mother have equal responsibility and rights regarding their child, unless they have SIGNED that right away. So, yes a Parent (father or mother) with the other only having physical custody, can refuse to grant permission for their child to leave their birth country.

This is true just having/proving physical custody would not work for me. They were very insistent that I had to have a court order showing that I had sole legal custody, which is why they required the official copy with the seal. I was lucky in that I knew I already had this so all I had to do was go get the official copy. If I did not I was informed that I would have had to go through the courts to have this established otherwise there was nothing they could do. Very frustrating, but there was also hope in that under the circumstances I could have requested an expedited hearing and had the matter settled in time for my vaca which was just under 3wks off.

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ladies, I would be careful about how you'll throw around the word sole custody. Sole custody does not take away a parent right. I don't know any one's situation, but I think some of you are confusing sole custody with physical custody. I am not stating any of this to start a diagreement with anything that has been said on previous post, but as I sit here reading some of these comments, I just felt it was necessary to state this fact. A father, and mother have equal responsibility and rights regarding their child, unless they have SIGNED that right away. So, yes a Parent (father or mother) with the other only having physical custody, can refuse to grant permission for their child to leave their birth country.

Not to really stir this up either but I know someone who is a family attorney who deals with divorces and stuff but sole custody is when one parent makes all decision for their child, what they eat, where they sleep, where they can go while the other parent only has visitation rights and can not make any decisions for the child unless the other parent who has sole custody agrees on it...Even looking up the word in the dictionary it states:

Sole Custody is an arrangement whereby only one parent has physical and legal custody of a child and the other parent has only visitation rights. Also, an order of the court that provides that children reside with one parent and that parent is responsible for all decisions affecting them.

So they do not need any permission from the father for the child's passport if they don't want it...I know when getting my son's passport I was getting into the same problem even though i wasn't married to my son's father but i just wrote a letter stating the father is not around and i don't know where he is and i showed that my son lives with me and that i'm the primary care-giver and they accepted it...

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NVC Journey Total days: 75

04.09.2008: Case# assigned

05.12.2008: DS230 Entered into System

06.18.2008: Case Complete (So upset that it took this long 37days)

US Embassy:

10.29.2008: Interview Date Assigned

11.17.2008: Medical Appointment

12.03.2008: Interview Date (FINALLY!!!)**APPROVED**

12.08.2008: Visa Delivered

12.21.2008: POE JFK

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Well Sus....that's one way to heat up the day!! :whistle:

Sus is this at Amnesia that is my club when i go to JA

** I been to hell and back but the key words is I'm back thanks to the grace of god! **

Love...Live...Life... (It's is better to have loved than to have never loved at all)

4/9/09 - Sent I-129F to Vermont Service Center via USPS

4/10/09 - VSC received packet

4/13/09- VSC opened package

4/15/09- VSC mailed NOA1

4/17/09- VSC cashed check

4/17/09-NOA1 online

4/20/09-NOA1 hard copy

4/20/09-Touched

4/20/09- now we wait...

8/27/09- touched

8/31/09- approved!!

9/4/09- letter saying they mailed info to kingston

11/16/09 sent DS230 via email

11/18/09 rec email stating interview was scheduled for Dec

11/19/09 sent email asking what day in Dec and they responded Dec 8th!!!!! 2WEEKS

11/20/09 rescheduled to Dec 22 my preference date

12/22/09 Went to JA 12/9 and di ting is postponed until mi kno it's right!!! mi nah rush into nothing mi rather wait forever and kno everyting proper and sort out then rush and bawl lata... Mi kno when mi ting ah happen it ah happen RIGHT suh fah now mi ah wait likkle more...

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Good Morning ladies!

I'm new to the board although I've been reading your posts for quite some time now so I feel as though I know you guys already. I just filed my K1 earlier this week so I'm sure I'll be seeking support during this process. Oh Father! the anxiety of it all!

Welcome!! Congrats on your filing.

What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger....

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Good Morning ladies!

I'm new to the board although I've been reading your posts for quite some time now so I feel as though I know you guys already. I just filed my K1 earlier this week so I'm sure I'll be seeking support during this process. Oh Father! the anxiety of it all!

Welcome Regal!!! :thumbs:

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Sus,

Which part is your SO from?

Thanks Island!

I'm looking forward to being a part of the group

~ 4/22/09 - sent I-129F form off to VSC

~ 11/23/09 – Interview Scheduled 11/23/2009

~ 12/09/09 – Picked up visa at MoBay DHL ofc-EXTREMELY late processing

~ 12/13/09 – Arrived at Philadelphia airport

~ 2/14/10 – WEDDING DAY FINALLY

AOS Timeline

~ 2/26/10 – mailed AOS/EAD/AP via USPS confirmed delivery

~ 2/28/10 – delivery confirmed 6:57 am

~ 3/10/10 – rec'd email acceptance confirmation from USCIS

~ 3/16/10 – rec'd NOA1's via mail for I-485, AP and EAD

~ 3/19/10 – Biometrics appt - 3/31/10 11 am

~ 3/24/10 – Walk-in Biometrics appt - 2:00 pm

~ 4/07/10 – Case transferred to National Benefits Center

~ 4/09/10 – Case transferred to CSC for processing

~ 5/01/10 – EAD card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 5/07/10 – AP rec'd in mail...no notice at all!

~ 5/24/10 – EAP rec'd in mail

~ 6/02/10 – AOS card ordered rec'd notice via email

~ 6/08/10 – rec'd welcome letter in mail

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