Yardies at home and Farrin (part13)

[sus 70]

Sus;

Thank you so much your friendship is ...damn I can't even find the words ...and girl, we haven't even met yet.

I feel the same, and trust me, we will meet soon! Once i get through the heyll of this semester, weekends are mine and roadtrips will be made!!

[Ellsinlove 2]

well, kind of HONEY; won round 2 of custody a few hours ago and possession of my house that I put so much money into and haven't lived in for 1 year...

My EX has a new baby that he's hiding, but dat soon come out in the light...he goes to my mom church looking like a broke down 80s pimp and want everyone to feel sorry for him and make me look like a bad mom. But people soon saw through him....

Lawny, that is EXCELLENT news! So happy for you! Bet you can't wait to get custody AND get back into your house!

[JaHoney 3]

it is funny, i swear i find more support with the ladies i have met on VJ than with my " real living in the flesh friends"...LOL.. this week has definitely been an eye opener for me

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

well said Honey;

I've been awake since 4:30 this morning so I'm going to bed. Ladies have a good night...likkle more.

[Shemmy 4]

Hey Everyone!! ELLS...its easy for me to keep it from my dad becuz its not like i see him everyday and we dont talk about " relationships" ..and when i go to his house he's mostly never there and when he is i take my ring off ..lol..but i'm just waiting for the right time to spill my beans...like PORTLAND said.. i might just let everyone know that we're engaged and then when he comes just have a private ceremony...then re-marry later on ..i thought about that idea and my mom even suggested i do that but then..somehow i shewd away from that idea..but now it seems like the best thing to do in order to keep my sanity..let my my fam keep thinking we're just engaged until they get to "really" know him love him and accept him..and that way i can save towards having the "big fairytale" wedding that i've always wanted when i finish school which i have a year and a half left..so by then we will be settled and ready to re-marry for a nice family wedding !!

A former VJer did this. Her family did not approve her marrying her Jamaican fiance. He came here on a K1...they got married and did not tell a soul...well only two of us VJ. Then they planned this huge wedding a year later in Negril. It was nice cuz they both worked their butts off to make it happen. So people thought it was their wedding but it was actually their first year anniversary. They still crazy in love and just had a baby. I couldn't last cuz I have to big mouth

Plus it was stressful for them.

BTW - her father never came around so he did not come to the wedding. But other family members did.

[Shemmy 4]

it is funny, i swear i find more support with the ladies i have met on VJ than with my " real living in the flesh friends"...LOL.. this week has definitely been an eye opener for me

Take it easy Honey. I've met some wonderful people on this thread in the last 5 years. We have laughed and cried together many times. We're here for you

Quana - things are really working out. I'm so happy for you.

Happy Anniversary Jason & Marla.

I'll admit...I would not last 5 seconds on the country or in the yard. I'm afraid of bugs Never had a cold shower or used an outhouse.

Shoot, I made my daughter quit Girl Scouts because of one camping trip that traumtized me. I'm a punk

[JaHoney 3]

Hey Jawi, how you feeling this evening?

Justucia, i absolutely love Mackinaw, so i might have to take you up on your offer... Mackinaw is one of the places i want to be able to share with D, when he gets here

[Islandwoman 0]

VICITORY IS MINE....VICTORY IS MINE OOHHHHHHH MINE

Yes!! I'm happy for you Chica - I've been wondering how it went.

Sus;

Thank you so much your friendship is ...damn I can't even find the words ...and girl, we haven't even met yet.

I feel the same, and trust me, we will meet soon! Once i get through the heyll of this semester, weekends are mine and roadtrips will be made!!

I'll ride down in the trunk of that BMW/Honda car.....

[phillyfashionista 8]

Girl, work, my kids and D lost his job over some mess, so that is going to be a huge stressor for him cause he hates not working, it drives him nuts and causes him to be depressed, which in turn causes me to be depressed cause i cant "fix" the problem. Im so used to always "fixing" folks problems, with my clients, and my kids, i dont take time for me sometimes and then with him, you know it is hard for a man to feel like a man when he cant take care of himself or his family, so all that tends to manifest, i honestly never had issues with anxiety before until i started working in mental health ( how ironic) i think i carry stress, the other night i woke out of a dead sleep at 3am, im talking wide awake, so i got up and sorted out clothes for goodwill and then made myself go back to sleep at 4 am and then iwas back up at 5 am, that was yesterday so i guess today was the meltdown

Oh Ms Honey I am sorry to hear you are going through so much, just remember God will never give you more than you can handle. I hope that everything works out for you and your SO. Please take it easy and take time for yourself...

[phillyfashionista 8]

well, kind of HONEY; won round 2 of custody a few hours ago and possession of my house that I put so much money into and haven't lived in for 1 year...

My EX has a new baby that he's hiding, but dat soon come out in the light...he goes to my mom church looking like a broke down 80s pimp and want everyone to feel sorry for him and make me look like a bad mom. But people soon saw through him....

You Go Lawny that is fabulous! You are so right what you do in the dark always comes out in the light!

LOL @ the broke down 80s pimp comment, you always have me rolling

[phillyfashionista 8]

Shemmy I finally watched G 's to Gents .....Oh Faheim dayum shame........Go Teddy! I hope he wins

Can you believe they showed all of the chapters of R Kelly's Trapped in the Closet on the IFC channel, and I was glued to the screen My 16 year old was cracking up at me because I was really into it.

I better go to my bed, Buenas Noches Ladies

[.:MzMorgan:. 0]

Hay - The talk of addresses is your address, not his - For his address, you put whatever the mailing address is you would use to send him mail - for example "Mammee Bay, Ocho Rios, St. Anns, Jamaica" =

thanx Sus

[.:MzMorgan:. 0]

Ells don't you get addicted to Baby Phat and Dereon like me LOL

I am getting an order ready now....

LOL @ you listening to Beyonce's whole album on the site , its good right!

Apple Bottoms is another site I have a few pieces, but some of their stuff is wack But I'm going to check out the summer collection LOL

U can try www.torrid.com they also have nice clothes for plus sizes!

[sus 70]

I'll ride down in the trunk of that BMW/Honda car.....

LOL, You can sit in the passenger seat!

Morning all - I am "working from home" today - (translation, doing my homework!)

[phillyfashionista 8]

Ells don't you get addicted to Baby Phat and Dereon like me LOL

I am getting an order ready now....

LOL @ you listening to Beyonce's whole album on the site , its good right!

Apple Bottoms is another site I have a few pieces, but some of their stuff is wack But I'm going to check out the summer collection LOL

U can try www.torrid.com they also have nice clothes for plus sizes!

Happy Friday Everyone

Thanks Haymsmorgan for mentioning Torrid how could I forget I shop there a lot as well. I was just telling Shemmy that's where I purchase a lot of my skinny jeans. I like Torrid because they offer the lines of a variety of designers.

I had to WOOSAH this morning too because I had to bite my tongue as I sooooooo close to cussing out my 14 year old's assistant principal. :angry: This woman is so difficult., I just have to breathe right now because I am still hotter than fish grease. I know I will need some advice from you other Mothers out there, I will post a little later when I can collect my thoughts.