February 09 - VSC

[Roman&Marina 0]

Fellas is it me or do you guys also think that we should quit our jobs, rent out an office and become psychotherapists.

I'm in.

I knew that I would see some takers.

[Maire 1]

anyways my life ..i could write a book!!!!!!!!thanks guys for the advise tho!!!!!!!!!wuv yaa all

[Rich and Bey 1]

Well Maire like Lee says you have to determine what you want. then don't put yourself in that situation again if you choose your BF.

[Dave & Jenny 0]

Wait a minute!!! DID i hear that we are all getting married at Maire's House. Maire has offered her home and is willing to pay for the whole thing. I am in. instead of a reunion party we will have one big WEDDING PARTY. mAIRE DO YOU COOK ALSO OR ARE YOU PAYING FOR THE CATERING?

I am absolutely IN on this! Especially because "Maire's Place" is providing an OPEN BAR (with MOJITOs)!

[Roman&Marina 0]

she is like a tornado...and this have been going on for like 10 years...she disappears..then 7 months later she appears and i have taken her back....then disappears and appears disappears and appears....when I saw my SO again I completely fell in love with him..and I wanted to see her to let her know she cant messed up my life again...but something I think went wrong..my main purpose was basically to face a fear and let her know that I was over her completely...I have not thought about her for 1 1/2 years ..but when I see her is like everything comes back...and is not fair to my baby and is not fair to me...My life was so perfect without her...when she is around I cant find peace

Ok fellas, gather the troops. We need to make this chick disappear. Cement boots if you know what I mean

Wait a minute!!! DID i hear that we are all getting married at Maire's House. Maire has offered her home and is willing to pay for the whole thing. I am in. instead of a reunion party we will have one big WEDDING PARTY. mAIRE DO YOU COOK ALSO OR ARE YOU PAYING FOR THE CATERING?

I am absolutely IN on this! Especially because "Maire's Place" is providing an OPEN BAR (with MOJITOs)!

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOJJJJJJJJJIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTOOOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSS

SSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Maire 1]

Wait a minute!!! DID i hear that we are all getting married at Maire's House. Maire has offered her home and is willing to pay for the whole thing. I am in. instead of a reunion party we will have one big WEDDING PARTY. mAIRE DO YOU COOK ALSO OR ARE YOU PAYING FOR THE CATERING?

I am absolutely IN on this! Especially because "Maire's Place" is providing an OPEN BAR (with MOJITOs)!

yeah right....it will be more like "bring what U want to drink" and "bring what you want to eat"

[Roman&Marina 0]

Wait a minute!!! DID i hear that we are all getting married at Maire's House. Maire has offered her home and is willing to pay for the whole thing. I am in. instead of a reunion party we will have one big WEDDING PARTY. mAIRE DO YOU COOK ALSO OR ARE YOU PAYING FOR THE CATERING?

I am absolutely IN on this! Especially because "Maire's Place" is providing an OPEN BAR (with MOJITOs)!

yeah right....it will be more like "bring what U want to drink" and "bring what you want to eat"

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOJJJJJJJJJIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTOOOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSS

SSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Maire 1]

she is like a tornado...and this have been going on for like 10 years...she disappears..then 7 months later she appears and i have taken her back....then disappears and appears disappears and appears....when I saw my SO again I completely fell in love with him..and I wanted to see her to let her know she cant messed up my life again...but something I think went wrong..my main purpose was basically to face a fear and let her know that I was over her completely...I have not thought about her for 1 1/2 years ..but when I see her is like everything comes back...and is not fair to my baby and is not fair to me...My life was so perfect without her...when she is around I cant find peace

Ok fellas, gather the troops. We need to make this chick disappear. Cement boots if you know what I mean

Wait a minute!!! DID i hear that we are all getting married at Maire's House. Maire has offered her home and is willing to pay for the whole thing. I am in. instead of a reunion party we will have one big WEDDING PARTY. mAIRE DO YOU COOK ALSO OR ARE YOU PAYING FOR THE CATERING?

I am absolutely IN on this! Especially because "Maire's Place" is providing an OPEN BAR (with MOJITOs)!

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOJJJJJJJJJIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTOOOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSS

SSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I wish she could disappear.....!!!!!!!!

[Dave & Jenny 0]

What happened with Maire????? Did she get scared after she heard how many parties are being planned at her house????

Did I hear there were "Panty-free Parties" on Fridays at Maire's Place?

[Roman&Marina 0]

What happened with Maire????? Did she get scared after she heard how many parties are being planned at her house????

Did I hear there were "Panty-free Parties" on Fridays at Maire's Place?

You got it. "Cuban Girls Gone Wild!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

[Rich and Bey 1]

Change your phone number Maire and don't answer any more messages from her. Remember your trip and how great you felt after seeing your SO. think about all the waiting and how good he made you feel. Don't let this chick sucker you in again.

[Dave & Jenny 0]

Guys I have a question to ask....ok here it goes

has it happened to any of you during this process that you have gotten tempted to do something that might hurt the relationship..for example...going to dinner with an ex..or gotten into a frisky situation, or something like that...

Well, being male, I always have thoughts when I see a really beautiful, sexy girl...but that is one way I know Jenny is the one for me - when this happens, as hot as they are, my thoughts turn to how much I love and miss her...

As for dinner with an ex, I have an ex who is a friend and have had dinner or drinks with her a couple times. Jenny knows about her, and I tell Jenny about meeting the ex. But that is an ex from quite a long time ago and we are just friends and it is not a temptation for me...

[Dave & Jenny 0]

Wait Maire i am curious.. You dated a female 1 1/2 years ago correct? she asked you to go out again and you went? do you want something to happen between you and her and does your current bf know anything about the ex gf?

He knows that I were gay all my life and he has been the only man in my life..but he doesnt know about this..this just happened last night...I didnt want anything to happen with her..but I gotta admit that I was curious to see her...and yes she did tell me she wants me back...and I told her that now my life is different and that I am in love with my SO...I am even thinking that she had all this planned out..cus she knows that I cant see people struggle and would help her find a place and stuff...she even called me today to see if I can go with her to see an apartment because she is scared to go alone...and i feel like everything is starting like dating or something...dunno if u guys know what I mean....but I dont know how to get out of this and I feel already guilty as it is that I voluntarily put myself in that situation...

Well, I must admit that being "curious to see her" is pretty normal. But I would be pretty cautious here. Your ex is possibly trying to drag you into drama and situations you don't want to be in or belong in. If you don't want to go there, you may have to be pretty "harsh" and NOT let your kinder instincts guide you. After all, if you let her crash at your place, it *will* lead to more drama - both with the ex who will try to get you back (leading to drama) and with the ex's current gf (who is going to be more pissed about her crashing there).

Remember you do have some choice...how much is your curiosity and guilt worth?

[Maire 1]

wow..thank u guys...Im amazed that you guys without even knowing the details give me the same advise than my best friends who have dealt with this situation for years...Thank u so much!!!I mean it

[Dave & Jenny 0]

she is like a tornado...and this have been going on for like 10 years...she disappears..then 7 months later she appears and i have taken her back....then disappears and appears disappears and appears....when I saw my SO again I completely fell in love with him..and I wanted to see her to let her know she cant messed up my life again...but something I think went wrong..my main purpose was basically to face a fear and let her know that I was over her completely...I have not thought about her for 1 1/2 years ..but when I see her is like everything comes back...and is not fair to my baby and is not fair to me...My life was so perfect without her...when she is around I cant find peace

Ok, so there is a part of you that thinks it could want something to happen. Wanting and choosing to act are two different things. What is it you really want? I am pretty sure you know. It seems like this girl is one of those who is a blast and amazing to be with... 5% of the time, then the horror starts. Is that what you want? Choosing this over your SO? I am guessing not. I would get her out of your house, tell her to go figure out her life, and CHOOSE to keep your own life where you want it.