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[Maire 1]

I'm envious of all who get to be with there SO. I haven't seen Maria since January. and I wont book a flight until we get the interview scheduled.

that sux...i had to go see mine last month....and will be seeing him in 65 days wohooo...D n M the longer the better the sex....yeayyy

[D_n_M 0]

That's true... but by the time that happens I might break her! But once we see each other again, we will never have to be separate like this again!

[lee b 2]

I won't go so far as to say the 90 days is a trial period, but we do plan on waiting to the 60-75 day point to marry. Just in case there are some deal breaking habits either of us have. I don't believe we will, because we have been talking about these things, but yo never know. Oksana is being completely removed from her culture and while I will have to adjust to living with her it will be by far more difficult for her. Thats why we decided to use most of the 90 days. I am certainly not looking at her as a BOWFLEX, but there are going to be issues with being together for for an extended time.

ur s right...I have not spent more than 25 days living with my SO..but again it has been on "vacation" is not the same as living for good with him...i know its difficult..but I hope love its stronger than that

I am confident that our love is strong enough. We are just trying to be realistic and unfortunatley the only way for people in our situations to find out is just to do it. Although I am not worried, because lets just be honest I am PERFECT.

ur perfect!? LMAO righttttt

Are you calling my mom a liar?

[Roman&Marina 0]

I am so excited for all of you who are getting your SO's prepared for their interviews. Admittedly I am a bit jealous, but also happy that I get to see how you prepare for the interview. Its kind of like I get to watch a practise run before I have to jump in. I am very happy for all of you though and trust that my jealousy is minimal at best.

Speaking of mini did she ever say when her interview date was?

I spoke to her 2 days ago and apparently they broke up...i hope they get back tho

That totally sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel sooooooo bad for her.

[LiLMermaid 2]

You just seen your SO Maire and he's gonna be there in a few short months. I haven't seen mine since March and before that it was almost 6 months. That was tough after seeing each other daily for over 3 years. This whole thing is bad enough on your own but even worse when you have your kids crying to you that "we miss Richie". I'm thankful that at least I can say ..."We'll see him in 25 days"

Any luck our NOA2 will come while we are there and then I can tell the kids we just need to go back to finish up stuff to live there permanently.

[Maire 1]

You just seen your SO Maire and he's gonna be there in a few short months. I haven't seen mine since March and before that it was almost 6 months. That was tough after seeing each other daily for over 3 years. This whole thing is bad enough on your own but even worse when you have your kids crying to you that "we miss Richie". I'm thankful that at least I can say ..."We'll see him in 25 days"

Any luck our NOA2 will come while we are there and then I can tell the kids we just need to go back to finish up stuff to live there permanently.

oh so ur SO is the one petitioning u?

I won't go so far as to say the 90 days is a trial period, but we do plan on waiting to the 60-75 day point to marry. Just in case there are some deal breaking habits either of us have. I don't believe we will, because we have been talking about these things, but yo never know. Oksana is being completely removed from her culture and while I will have to adjust to living with her it will be by far more difficult for her. Thats why we decided to use most of the 90 days. I am certainly not looking at her as a BOWFLEX, but there are going to be issues with being together for for an extended time.

ur s right...I have not spent more than 25 days living with my SO..but again it has been on "vacation" is not the same as living for good with him...i know its difficult..but I hope love its stronger than that

I am confident that our love is strong enough. We are just trying to be realistic and unfortunatley the only way for people in our situations to find out is just to do it. Although I am not worried, because lets just be honest I am PERFECT.

ur perfect!? LMAO righttttt

Are you calling my mom a liar?

most likely I am

[LiLMermaid 2]

You just seen your SO Maire and he's gonna be there in a few short months. I haven't seen mine since March and before that it was almost 6 months. That was tough after seeing each other daily for over 3 years. This whole thing is bad enough on your own but even worse when you have your kids crying to you that "we miss Richie". I'm thankful that at least I can say ..."We'll see him in 25 days"

Any luck our NOA2 will come while we are there and then I can tell the kids we just need to go back to finish up stuff to live there permanently.

oh so ur SO is the one petitioning u?

I won't go so far as to say the 90 days is a trial period, but we do plan on waiting to the 60-75 day point to marry. Just in case there are some deal breaking habits either of us have. I don't believe we will, because we have been talking about these things, but yo never know. Oksana is being completely removed from her culture and while I will have to adjust to living with her it will be by far more difficult for her. Thats why we decided to use most of the 90 days. I am certainly not looking at her as a BOWFLEX, but there are going to be issues with being together for for an extended time.

ur s right...I have not spent more than 25 days living with my SO..but again it has been on "vacation" is not the same as living for good with him...i know its difficult..but I hope love its stronger than that

I am confident that our love is strong enough. We are just trying to be realistic and unfortunatley the only way for people in our situations to find out is just to do it. Although I am not worried, because lets just be honest I am PERFECT.

ur perfect!? LMAO righttttt

Are you calling my mom a liar?

most likely I am

Yup...he came to Canada for 3 years...now its my turn to move.

[Maire 1]

That's true... but by the time that happens I might break her! But once we see each other again, we will never have to be separate like this again!

ur right...I will never forget ur words of wisdom...the last mile of the marathon..wow u really got to me with that one... u can actually be a motivational speaker

Edited June 24, 2009 by Maire

[D_n_M 0]

My glass is ALWAYs half full!

[Maire 1]

My glass is ALWAYs half full!

By now Richard must be a rabbit if you know what I mean...

[D_n_M 0]

The funny thing is... Maria is a Glass half empty kind of person. But opposites attract yin and yang!

yep....humpin like bunnies....

[lee b 2]

I think Richard is really trying to see if he can break it.

[Roman&Marina 0]

HUUUUUNKYYYYYYYYY PUUUUNKYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Maire 1]

The funny thing is... Maria is a Glass half empty kind of person. But opposites attract yin and yang!

yep....humpin like bunnies....

iam the same way..always see only the negative but my SO is so like u..he keeps me alive...

[D_n_M 0]

or at least wound it alittle... breakin it means he has to suffer too!@