American Woman Bitter and Lonely?!

[Mykuls Merry Ann 4]

I have found the promise land, and now i share it with my friends.

:blink: :blink: :blink:

me too

Here's the deal. There are plenty of american men that are perfectly happy with their american women. If you have always found "bad" american women...guess what? YOU are the common denominator.

I would like to know how the wives/finaces feel about their husbands/men saying..."i just love phillipino women,they are the best!", instead of... I love the woman I found, she is from the phillipines.

It would kinda of cheapen the feeling of being special and loved for who you are, instead it sounds like...oh i scored one, like it didnt matter which one. just my opinion

Exactly!!! Thank you for saying this. I dont think our filipina sisters see this just yet.

[Welshcookie 17]

Mykuls, tallcoolone & anyone i missed messing w/ the US/Euro/MENA/etc ladies:

i know you guys are just having a little fun. but, these type of threads always end badly. so what right? wrong. people might not remember your name, but they will remember the flag on your profile. someone might be mad at you & take it out on someone else w/ the same flag on their profile. someone that needs help, might not get it coz of something you say.

a true story(me & my wife). about a year & 1/2 ago (SMOKE is a new account, i've been around here for some time now) there had been several of these types of threads going. my wife was still in the PI & we were in the prepping for the interview stage. i told my fiance to log on to VJ if she had any questions & i wasn't around to answer them. she did. she was torched by some members, not for anything she said or did, but for things that had been said by someone w/ the Philippine flag on their profile. can you imagine what it is like to have your fiance/wife on the phone crying her eyes out because of something someone said to her on the site you recommended to her & you're 12,000 miles away & can do nothing to fix it. it sucked more than i can describe to you.

so if you like it or not you are 'representing' the PI when you're here on VJ. don't let having a little fun go to far & don't let your action effect someone else that truely needs this website. this place is for people that need help w/ immigration issues. if you make some friends along the way great. its a long tough process. please don't make it harder for people that come after you.

Nice post Smoke I have got to know a few PI ladies here on VJ over the years who have the been the nicest ladies I ever got to know, I have also worked in a professional capacity with many (in the nursing profession in the UK), I think threads like this do a great disservice to your lovely wives guys...seriously.

[Mykuls Merry Ann 4]

Mykuls, tallcoolone & anyone i missed messing w/ the US/Euro/MENA/etc ladies:

i know you guys are just having a little fun. but, these type of threads always end badly. so what right? wrong. people might not remember your name, but they will remember the flag on your profile. someone might be mad at you & take it out on someone else w/ the same flag on their profile. someone that needs help, might not get it coz of something you say.

a true story(me & my wife). about a year & 1/2 ago (SMOKE is a new account, i've been around here for some time now) there had been several of these types of threads going. my wife was still in the PI & we were in the prepping for the interview stage. i told my fiance to log on to VJ if she had any questions & i wasn't around to answer them. she did. she was torched by some members, not for anything she said or did, but for things that had been said by someone w/ the Philippine flag on their profile. can you imagine what it is like to have your fiance/wife on the phone crying her eyes out because of something someone said to her on the site you recommended to her & you're 12,000 miles away & can do nothing to fix it. it sucked more than i can describe to you.

so if you like it or not you are 'representing' the PI when you're here on VJ. don't let having a little fun go to far & don't let your action effect someone else that truely needs this website. this place is for people that need help w/ immigration issues. if you make some friends along the way great. its a long tough process. please don't make it harder for people that come after you.

I am sorry to hear what happened to your wife. But I will make 2 points:

We all share the freedom to not read or click on thing on the internet. At some point you have the responsibility to go where you feel more comfortable.

As for those who attack? VJ is no different that the rest of the world wide web. Sometimes soft spots get hit.

VJ is also very informative for a place where people can only learn about immigration issues but also learn about some of the major social problems.

This thread may be fun, and only fun. i am sure there are some fragile, insecure, senstive souls out there that cannot handle the contect. But again, what needs to be done here is take responsibility and block the OP. When you see that OP's name dont click on any of them. I have been known on many websites to discuss intellectuallly about controversial issues. I dont offend, But the issues can be sensitive to ssome, and very highly stimulating for others. But you make the CHOICE.

To be honest more than we can see, the stereotypes on the title of this thread have been thrown on on VJ in many places. I dont agree with neither. I am not creating a false thread, its reality.

I dont mind that some will CHOOSE not to click on the thread at all. I respect them the most, Simply dont post, move to the next thread.

BUt do you not find it odd and mysterious that such a thread gets thousand of view, and so much attention?

Hmmmm....maybe....just maybe we only complain when things dont go our way. BUt if its all good for us, we play like children, huh?

[Welshcookie 17]

Do we have to?

[Mykuls Merry Ann 4]

Do we have to?

NOPE!

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

Mykuls, tallcoolone & anyone i missed messing w/ the US/Euro/MENA/etc ladies:

i know you guys are just having a little fun. but, these type of threads always end badly. so what right? wrong. people might not remember your name, but they will remember the flag on your profile. someone might be mad at you & take it out on someone else w/ the same flag on their profile. someone that needs help, might not get it coz of something you say.

a true story(me & my wife). about a year & 1/2 ago (SMOKE is a new account, i've been around here for some time now) there had been several of these types of threads going. my wife was still in the PI & we were in the prepping for the interview stage. i told my fiance to log on to VJ if she had any questions & i wasn't around to answer them. she did. she was torched by some members, not for anything she said or did, but for things that had been said by someone w/ the Philippine flag on their profile. can you imagine what it is like to have your fiance/wife on the phone crying her eyes out because of something someone said to her on the site you recommended to her & you're 12,000 miles away & can do nothing to fix it. it sucked more than i can describe to you.

so if you like it or not you are 'representing' the PI when you're here on VJ. don't let having a little fun go to far & don't let your action effect someone else that truely needs this website. this place is for people that need help w/ immigration issues. if you make some friends along the way great. its a long tough process. please don't make it harder for people that come after you.

Maybe it is good for us, as a immigrant community, and the spouse of immigrants, that we work these issues out here, instead of in the greater society in which we live. If it is true, that the largest, and fastest growing group of OTM's, is, or soon will be Filipino, then this is an issue that needs to be resolved. And, if my attendance in the Fil-Am organizations shows what appears to be the norm, that this population is 90% Pinay, leaving just a spattering of Filipino men, the Kano spouses and their children, then we definitely have an issue that will need to be resolved soon.

There is resentment against us, here on VJ, for speaking our minds. I know as a group, among ourselves we are not afraid to speak our minds. So, should we watch our step? Maybe. Should we men also be docile and submissive? Ladies? But whatever the lesson is, let us learn it here on VJ.

--Bullwinkle

Edited January 21, 2009 by Rocky_nBullwinkle

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

steven steven steven.......try looking south for the ones that have the real natural beauty, not what some surgeon with a scalpel can work.

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[john & jean 37]

DAMMM, CHARLES!

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[one...two...tree 2,762]

Maybe it is good for us, as a immigrant community, and the spouse of immigrants, that we work these issues out here, instead of in the greater society in which we live. If it is true, that the largest, and fastest growing group of OTM's, is, or soon will be Filipino, then this is an issue that needs to be resolved. And, if my attendance in the Fil-Am organizations shows what appears to be the norm, that this population is 90% Pinay, leaving just a spattering of Filipino men, the Kano spouses and their children, then we definitely have an issue that will need to be resolved soon.

There is resentment against us, here on VJ, for speaking our minds. I know as a group, among ourselves we are not afraid to speak our minds. So, should we watch our step? Maybe. Should we men also be docile and submissive? Ladies? But whatever the lesson is, let us learn it here on VJ.

--Bullwinkle

There was a time before when VJ didn't have regional forums....IMO, the amount of isolation between VJ'ers based on country of origin leads to a lot 'us vs. them' threads. Although there are some benefits to having a forum dedicated the country of origin, it leads to more division...working against the whole melting pot notion of this great country of ours.

[Mykuls Merry Ann 4]

Maybe it is good for us, as a immigrant community, and the spouse of immigrants, that we work these issues out here, instead of in the greater society in which we live. If it is true, that the largest, and fastest growing group of OTM's, is, or soon will be Filipino, then this is an issue that needs to be resolved. And, if my attendance in the Fil-Am organizations shows what appears to be the norm, that this population is 90% Pinay, leaving just a spattering of Filipino men, the Kano spouses and their children, then we definitely have an issue that will need to be resolved soon.

There is resentment against us, here on VJ, for speaking our minds. I know as a group, among ourselves we are not afraid to speak our minds. So, should we watch our step? Maybe. Should we men also be docile and submissive? Ladies? But whatever the lesson is, let us learn it here on VJ.

--Bullwinkle

There was a time before when VJ didn't have regional forums....IMO, the amount of isolation between VJ'ers based on country of origin leads to a lot 'us vs. them' threads. Although there are some benefits to having a forum dedicated the country of origin, it leads to more division...working against the whole melting pot notion of this great country of ours.

It can never work against you, when you openly and honestly dispelling the myths. Its looking over them as if they do not exist, its what prevents the mix in the pot from settling.

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

DAMMM, CHARLES!

ALL THREE ####### A LICIOUS

bonus points if you can name them

[o0pink0o 3]

A man found a Magic Lamp. The genie asks what he wishes for. The man asks to be irresistible to women, So the genie turned him into a box of chocolates.

"Men are like grapes. You have to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with."

One day a woman was granted one wish from a genie. She could have anything in the world and she asked to never have to cook or clean again. The genie sat there for a moment, smile and then POOF!!!! She made the woman a man.

Why do men want to marry virgins? Because men can't stand criticism.

I got a million of em!

why are women's feet so small? so they can stand closer to the sink while washing dishes.

what's the difference between a washing machine and a woman? a washing machine doesn't think you have a relationship just because you dropped a load in it.

why does the bride smile when she walks down the aisle? because she knows she just gave her last bj.

why does the bride wear white? so she'll match the rest of the kitchen appliances.

what's the definition of a wife? an attachment you screw on the bed to get the housework done.

i got millions of them too

You are are funny!! (ha ha, not like a clown)

Why were men given larger brains than dogs? So they wouldn't hump women's legs at cocktail parties.

How many men does it take to do the dishes? I don't know but I will let you know when it happens.

What's a man's idea of cleaning the bathroom? Flushing the toilet.

I would much rather laugh at this issue than get mad about it. Let's turn this around, start posting your jokes!

wait, we have larger brains than dogs?

how many women does it take to change a lightbulb? none, they'd rather sit in the dark and b!tch about it.

What is the difference between a battery and a woman? A battery has a positive side.

Why don't women wear watches? There's a clock on the stove.

How many men does it take to open a beer? None, it should be opened when she brings it to you.

What do you call a woman with two brain cells? Pregnant.

Why haven't any women ever gone to the moon? It doesn't need cleaning yet

Married men live longer than single men, but married men are a lot more willing to die.

Any married man can forget his past mistakes, there's no reason for two people to keep track of the same things.

[amberdima 6]

i LOVE all of these stereotypes. as an american woman who just watched a president who defies stereotypes and promotes equality become inaugerated, you have all just proven that his efforts matter not when old, fat, gray, ugly men who can't get american women to marry them believe this sh*t about an entire nation. nice work.

[geezer 1]

bonus points if you can name them

Double D?

[amberdima 6]

DAMMM, CHARLES!

ALL THREE ####### A LICIOUS

bonus points if you can name them

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