To my fellow pinays ... does size really matter?

[babykim 0]

well for me wallet is not a big deal if u love the person..for me the most important is for having him a big heart dat i can share my whole life to him and to know that i am happy being with him for the rest of my life.coz i know that if u two well work together u can make that wallet big as u think.so good luck to you..

[mrsartis 10]

what wallet? what money? =)

[JoBri 545]

Well, I told my filipina wife from the beginning I am poor (and I AM!). I couldnt afford to fly there the first time, and she paid my airfare and hotel too... insisted on it, in fact. She is at the pinnacle of her career, a 35 year old school principal. So she will have to start over here, for the most part, and dirt poor at the beginning. She loses everything materialistically by coming here. From the beginning she told me she is not materialistic. We both will be going back to school here, me to become an RN and she to become a special education teacher. But right now I work 16 hours a day to earn enough, as a Certified Nurse Aid at a nursing home here.

So, I feel safe in speaking for her to say that for her, at least, the money is not a part of the equation. She pretty much starts over, from the ground, in coming here, right when she was becoming such a success over there.

It just makes me shake my head... God blessed me richly.

Brian in Tennessee

[Completely 3]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

I do not see any reason why we have to type in spanish here.. I believe not everyone can understand spanish.

¡Ay caramba, calla te tu voca, por favor, because your husbands or your fiances might not understand Tagalog either! So, you can be free to talk behind their backs if you so desire.

Well my husband does not a VJ member and I never talk bad about him. It is just talking and speaking spanish is just totally irrelevant in this forum.

[Completely 3]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

I do not see any reason why we have to type in spanish here.. I believe not everyone can understand spanish.

¡Ay caramba, calla te tu voca, por favor, because your husbands or your fiances might not understand Tagalog either! So, you can be free to talk behind their backs if you so desire.

I cant shut my mouth, as my mind is the one who speaks here..

Well, my husband is not a VJ member and I never talk bad about him.

It is just talking and speaking spanish is just totally irrelevant in this forum. Go to the right forum and maybe somehow your language will be accepted there.

[fendergirl 1]

I married one with no WALLET :whistle:

[Señorita Tessa 1]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

¿Comadre, sabes que hay alguien, una mujer ofensiva, quien no nos quiere escribir aquí en inglés? ¡Parece que es una cabeza torcida!

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

¿Comadre, sabes que hay alguien, una mujer ofensiva, quien no nos quiere escribir aquí en inglés? ¡Parece que es una cabeza torcida!

Permitame, Senor Teresita. Deba Ud para el guerra a pasar. Somebody has been a bad girl!

[Señorita Tessa 1]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

¿Comadre, sabes que hay alguien, una mujer ofensiva, quien no nos quiere escribir aquí en inglés? ¡Parece que es una cabeza torcida!

Permitame, Senor Teresita. Deba Ud para el guerra a pasar. Somebody has been a bad girl!

Sí, claro que sí, Señora Marie.

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

Well, I told my filipina wife from the beginning I am poor (and I AM!). I couldnt afford to fly there the first time, and she paid my airfare and hotel too... insisted on it, in fact. She is at the pinnacle of her career, a 35 year old school principal. So she will have to start over here, for the most part, and dirt poor at the beginning. She loses everything materialistically by coming here. From the beginning she told me she is not materialistic. We both will be going back to school here, me to become an RN and she to become a special education teacher. But right now I work 16 hours a day to earn enough, as a Certified Nurse Aid at a nursing home here.

So, I feel safe in speaking for her to say that for her, at least, the money is not a part of the equation. She pretty much starts over, from the ground, in coming here, right when she was becoming such a success over there.

It just makes me shake my head... God blessed me richly.

Brian in Tennessee

God Bless you both....

But I am afraid that you are the exception and not the rule.....

What I am trying to say, it is usually the other way around.......

[Señorita Tessa 1]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

¿Comadre, sabes que hay alguien, una mujer ofensiva, quien no nos quiere escribir aquí en inglés español? ¡Parece que es una cabeza torcida!

¡Comadre, he redactado el error!

[Rocky_nBullwinkle 6]

I bet that most men who read the title of this thread suddenly felt insecure about something. But don't worry, boys, it's not what you think!

My question is this ... if the size of your fiance's wallet is very small, even with his big heart, will this diminish your desire to pursue the dream of going to America to marry and live with him?

¿Qué tal, comadre? Parece que estas hablando de estes payasos que siempre estan en VJ.

Ni modo, I am delighted that I don't have this predicament. Although he is not rich, he's not poor either. We'll live comfortably in Southern California.

¡Por supuesto eso sí que es! Especialmente con esos imbéciles de la sección off topic. Comadre, me hace feliz que te vas a EEUU muy pronto. Y yo, hasta todavia, no sé si me voy a EEUU o no.

¿Comadre, sabes que hay alguien, una mujer ofensiva, quien no nos quiere escribir aquí en inglés español? ¡Parece que es una cabeza torcida!

¡Comadre, he redactado el error!

Mine, as well, Senora Teresita. Si Bill ako. Marie will be online soon.

--Bullwinkle

P.S. Her Spanish is getting better than mine!

Edited January 21, 2009 by Rocky_nBullwinkle

[eros_EX_Plumber 0]

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IT IS THE MOTION of going to America that counts......heheheheh

So its the size of the green card then

I am Glad.....you enjoy it...

[Robert E Lee 0]

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IT IS THE MOTION of going to America that counts......heheheheh

So its the size of the green card then

I am Glad.....you enjoy it...

But, gooollly, ain't the green card only about 3 inches?

[JoBri 545]

Well, that is sad if normally the otehr way around. I mean, money over love? Really? What a sad reason to get married. I would say that is a good part of the equation to the high divorce rate these days.

Well, I told my filipina wife from the beginning I am poor (and I AM!). I couldnt afford to fly there the first time, and she paid my airfare and hotel too... insisted on it, in fact. She is at the pinnacle of her career, a 35 year old school principal. So she will have to start over here, for the most part, and dirt poor at the beginning. She loses everything materialistically by coming here. From the beginning she told me she is not materialistic. We both will be going back to school here, me to become an RN and she to become a special education teacher. But right now I work 16 hours a day to earn enough, as a Certified Nurse Aid at a nursing home here.

So, I feel safe in speaking for her to say that for her, at least, the money is not a part of the equation. She pretty much starts over, from the ground, in coming here, right when she was becoming such a success over there.

It just makes me shake my head... God blessed me richly.

Brian in Tennessee

God Bless you both....

But I am afraid that you are the exception and not the rule.....

What I am trying to say, it is usually the other way around.......