What's next? Married 2 years I129 interview visa denial

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

Omoba thank you again, I'm very curious what your profile name means. I do wonder if the dangers of Nigeria are media induced, that was my opinion last time I was there. Although there are definately risks - that's the case wherever you go it seems like the country is suffering - well the whole world has suffered due to economics and so forth so it is far too generalized. Some who watch the news, when I met my husband were more then concerned it was a scam. As all of those close drew around and approved and knew it wasn't a scam others seem to back off due to the confidence. But still there are those who if you marry outside the country will truly think until the end of time that they're using you no matter what you say. You really can't seem to care what others think otherwise it would be down-heartening to hear someone you love being called a scammer or a fraud.

You mentioned about having faith earlier and having a peace of knowing things are as they should be. I have felt that as well - that is also how my husband views things, our faith drew us together. Thank you for stating that and reminding me of where I should redirect my thinking. I am so relieved to have been able to find this site, I feel more stable in my feelings and a sense of hope and energy again. ~ TY

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

Forshika, thank you for your warm welcome as well. ~

[Ta Ta 1]

Omoba thank you again, I'm very curious what your profile name means. I do wonder if the dangers of Nigeria are media induced, that was my opinion last time I was there. Although there are definately risks - that's the case wherever you go it seems like the country is suffering - well the whole world has suffered due to economics and so forth so it is far too generalized. Some who watch the news, when I met my husband were more then concerned it was a scam. As all of those close drew around and approved and knew it wasn't a scam others seem to back off due to the confidence. But still there are those who if you marry outside the country will truly think until the end of time that they're using you no matter what you say. You really can't seem to care what others think otherwise it would be down-heartening to hear someone you love being called a scammer or a fraud.

You mentioned about having faith earlier and having a peace of knowing things are as they should be. I have felt that as well - that is also how my husband views things, our faith drew us together. Thank you for stating that and reminding me of where I should redirect my thinking. I am so relieved to have been able to find this site, I feel more stable in my feelings and a sense of hope and energy again. ~ TY

The name Omoba is part of a name that was given to me by an Igbo Christian pastor.

It translates into child of the king.....I like God's kid. I have had it for years.

I have many Nigerian friends but my SO is from Sierra Leone.

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

That's wonderful - I am trying to learn some Igbo language, it's a difficult one but from the sounds of it it's also a dieing language. What is it like in Sierra Lione? ~ Cheers

[Ta Ta 1]

That's wonderful - I am trying to learn some Igbo language, it's a difficult one but from the sounds of it it's also a dieing language. What is it like in Sierra Lione? ~ Cheers

We can chit chat in the waiting thread if you like.

[Sylvia_n_Joseph 3]

That's wonderful - I am trying to learn some Igbo language, it's a difficult one but from the sounds of it it's also a dieing language. What is it like in Sierra Lione? ~ Cheers

Is your husband Igbo ? Joseph is Igbo from a villiage near Enugu. Where are you located in the states ?

[idocare 3]

For those interested.

I have purchased a DVD called Learn Igbo from Borders book store. I wanted my son

to learn his fathers language so that he won't find himself in a crowd of Igbo speaking

people one day and not be able to understand what they're saying.

It comes Ipod ready.

[idocare 3]

Here's the site.

As stated earlier there are white women, Indian women and Blackwomen that are

members of this site living with their husbands in Nigeria currently; and have for some

time. Check it out.

http://www.nigerwivesnigeria.com/

[forchika 4]

For those interested.

I have purchased a DVD called Learn Igbo from Borders book store. I wanted my son

to learn his fathers language so that he won't find himself in a crowd of Igbo speaking

people one day and not be able to understand what they're saying.

It comes Ipod ready.

Thanks for the info....I will check it out. I keep saying my southern accent is not going to let me speak Igbo but, I will not give up!!!!!!

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

idocare - thank you thank you thank you SO much!

[Afrilaskan Queen 0]

Hi Sylvia - yes I have heard of Enugu but my husband is not over there. My Hubby is Igbo too.