been having a long time on line affair in MENA

[nunyab 0]

I knew you couldn't resist peaking .... but really I get up every morning to talk to you guys... rush home after work to peak at anything new..and sometimes on the sly log in at work. What does that sound like to you???

I don't tell others about what I do here on line and when something new happens I get all excited...

Does it change once you get your S/O home????

Thoughts, ideas appreciated

[nunyab 0]

and in case you didn't pick up on it it's with VJ and my MENA pals..............all emotional really nothing has happend

[Aymsgirl 0]

I'm just as addicted to VJ but from work. I work on a pc so I have a minutes to browse the net on and off all day. In the evenings I may get on but rarely. I would say the part that has changed is getting on as much from home since he is here.

My name is Tasha and I am a VJ addict!

[Sandrila 1]

I am addicted to VJ

I would say thank god for this site....for all the resources, informations, experiences and encouragement is helping me get through this rough time.

Rajaa....you were very cute with your words too!

I am mostly on at work, since most times it is slow for me

I enjoy reading what others are going through and putting my 2 cents in from time to time

thanks for giving me something to grab onto this morning

[polarbear 0]

vj addict!

Even when i don't feel like posting, I can't resist getting on to read how everyone is doing. It's alot less since my hubby came home - I only log in from work and occasionally in the mornings with breakfast

I can't even begin to imagine how productive I would be at work if I didn't have the internet acess

[AlHayatZween 2]

I'm just as addicted to VJ but from work. I work on a pc so I have a minutes to browse the net on and off all day. In the evenings I may get on but rarely. I would say the part that has changed is getting on as much from home since he is here.

My name is Tasha and I am a VJ addict!

hehehe... same with me.

i'm always on at work. i used to be online at home, too! so i've cut back some since Habibi's arrival, which is good, because for a minute there i was worried that i was developing a cyber addiction.

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

I knew you couldn't resist peaking .... but really I get up every morning to talk to you guys... rush home after work to peak at anything new..and sometimes on the sly log in at work. What does that sound like to you???

I don't tell others about what I do here on line and when something new happens I get all excited...

Does it change once you get your S/O home????

Thoughts, ideas appreciated

whew, i thought you was outing us to mena.

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

I find since I've grown shyer and gone away to colllege that I talk to my real freinds less as I am having less in common with them now days with things to discuss. I maybe have one real old time friend that I call daily. Most my friends don't discuss theologically things, or news things, or political things with me, or be real supportive of my marriage. I lost a lot of friends over there. We've reach our bounds and comfort zones with each other.

VJ offers a wide array of people to discuss things with including immigration and regional related spouse things that I have no one else who I can talk with about that except for here. There is 1-2 mena married couple where I live but my spouse isn't here for us to do stuff with them yet so we don't talk either.

I think part of VJ's purpose has been made for those waiting for their loved ones.

That trend tends to be when the SO gets here members either disappear all together or check in from time to time because the bonds they have here are so compelling. Some take breaks for a few weeks, some a few months popping back in to give up dates and to check up dates, some take a break for a year and come back after awhile because they forgot how much they missed it and the friendships they have here. Just like most of us met our spouses online so too have we found a community of online friends. This is such and amazing and unique world and time that we are living in today when we can send text msgs to our loved ones in a instant around the globe.

Edited September 10, 2008 by Olivia*

[esmatsgirl 1]

I have been addicted to VJ since I started using it for immigration advice. The information I have gotten here has helped me know what to expect and the people that I have met have been wonderful. We are all in the same boat, so to speak and that creates a common bond.

I usually just get on at work here and there in the day for a tiny break from work....I save nights for my honey (cam), house responsibilities, etc. then usually go to bed..by that time I am sick of being on computers (all day).

I don't get on constantly but it is very nice to know its here when I need it. It has been an invaluable resource as well as a great place to meet wonderful people and get a laugh! Not to mention the latest and greatest on what the NVC/embassy is up to with other immigrant cases...which sometimes helps us gauge our own.

Thanks to all of those that are on here constantly and help to manage the site for us. You guys and girls ROCK!!

Deb

[Staashi 371]

I'm a VJ Addict!

I'm on at work...but only try to be on a little bit at home because my hubby gets upset. hehe He's like, "We're done with immigration. Why do you get on there?" I tell him it's because I have friends on here and there are always people to help with one immigration crisis or another.

[Nagishkaw 510]

...home, home again

I like to be here when I can.

[nunyab 0]

I knew you couldn't resist peaking .... but really I get up every morning to talk to you guys... rush home after work to peak at anything new..and sometimes on the sly log in at work. What does that sound like to you???

I don't tell others about what I do here on line and when something new happens I get all excited...

Does it change once you get your S/O home????

Thoughts, ideas appreciated

whew, i thought you was outing us to mena.

lol..... I have a TS clearance in the Army .... your secret is safe

[nunyab 0]

lol... did you all see how fast the title grabbed people and only a hand full posted.... hehehe

anyway, my name is Rajaa... and I.......am.........a................VJ Adicted...

I love you guys!!!!!

I am addicted to VJ

I would say thank god for this site....for all the resources, informations, experiences and encouragement is helping me get through this rough time.

Rajaa....you were very cute with your words too!

I am mostly on at work, since most times it is slow for me

I enjoy reading what others are going through and putting my 2 cents in from time to time

thanks for giving me something to grab onto this morning

figured it was a little quite in MENA land...thought to stir the pot a bit get some excitement..

[Nothing1234 2]

Olivia said it best!!

Woohoo I am a VJ addict and proud!

While my hubby is here already we are still in the immigration process so I will be seeking more advice I'm sure. I enjoy the friendships I have made and so I'm hanging around to see how everyone is doing and cheer everyone on!

I typically log on from work now....prior to that on materinity leave it was my late nights since the babies had me up...VJ kept me company. LOL

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

I knew you couldn't resist peaking .... but really I get up every morning to talk to you guys... rush home after work to peak at anything new..and sometimes on the sly log in at work. What does that sound like to you???

I don't tell others about what I do here on line and when something new happens I get all excited...

Does it change once you get your S/O home????

Thoughts, ideas appreciated

whew, i thought you was outing us to mena.

lol..... I have a TS clearance in the Army .... your secret is safe

ditto