SOOOOOOOO Depressed

[Princesahispana 0]

HI all,

I just got back from spending ten wonderful days with my husband in the Dominican Rupublic, however, I am soooooooooooo depressed now. I hate leaving him and the rest of my family to come back to the states. My K-3 NOA1 was June 6, 2008. I feel that it's never going to get approved. i know it's been only a few months but i feel like it's been an eternity. How do you guys cope. also what are your thoughts, as to when my husband will be here with me. Please Advise.

[SraCastillo 0]

chica! I feel you! I was there two weeks ago and coming back was the worst thing ever happened. but we got to keep the hope! I have been in this process longer than you and right now I'm starting to desperate but I think I'm going back in October so lets hope that by then we will all be approved.

[*JG* 2]

We have all played the waiting game. And, we've all played it while visiting them. It never gets any easier. You just have to distract yourself enough not to stress over the time every minute of the day.

Hang in there. Your time is coming.

[R de la R 2]

Stay strong the waiting is hard, but try to keep your mind busy, it helps!!!

Good luck!!!

[SraCastillo 0]

muchacha y de lo tuyo nada??? why is it taking so long for you what about your fiancee? has he look for help?

[MVPSOL 0]

I know what your going through,, "yo no tengo paciensa para esta baina" that's spanish for i have no patience... its only been a month for me but i check the uscis.gov website at least 5 times a day..... I am strung out like a crack addict but instead of crack i need a goverment site to cure my pains lol. Stay Strong...and good luck with your process...

[DianaP 0]

Hey Girl.... I been married for 6 years and waiting for my petition to be approved for 17 months now, our son will be 2 years old in October and I have no time to feel depressed I am planning our son birthday party with Daddy in the States... Be hopeful, be positive, keep yourself busy and just think that GOD always knows best... everything will work out and you guys will be reunited forever and ever very soon.... Good Luck!!!

[SraCastillo 0]

I know what your going through,, "yo no tengo paciensa para esta baina" that's spanish for i have no patience... its only been a month for me but i check the uscis.gov website at least 5 times a day..... I am strung out like a crack addict but instead of crack i need a goverment site to cure my pains lol. Stay Strong...and good luck with your process...

jejeje i couldn't said that better! Crakeros del Govierno!! jejeje Tecatos de USCIS

[R de la R 2]

muchacha y de lo tuyo nada??? why is it taking so long for you what about your fiancee? has he look for help?

Si, hablas conmigo, the response is that I got approved and my case is here in DR. I already got the case number

I know what your going through,, "yo no tengo paciensa para esta baina" that's spanish for i have no patience... its only been a month for me but i check the uscis.gov website at least 5 times a day..... I am strung out like a crack addict but instead of crack i need a goverment site to cure my pains lol. Stay Strong...and good luck with your process...

jejeje i couldn't said that better! Crakeros del Govierno!! jejeje Tecatos de USCIS

You both are crazy but it was funny

[Sabr 0]

HI all,

I just got back from spending ten wonderful days with my husband in the Dominican Rupublic, however, I am soooooooooooo depressed now. I hate leaving him and the rest of my family to come back to the states. My K-3 NOA1 was June 6, 2008. I feel that it's never going to get approved. i know it's been only a few months but i feel like it's been an eternity. How do you guys cope. also what are your thoughts, as to when my husband will be here with me. Please Advise.

I feel the same way. I'm coming up on 3 months myself. Ill move to be with my wife but first I must be sure Ive done all I could to bring her here.

I find a little comfort in planning my next visit to see her. At least I can have a definite time when we will see each other if only 4 a visit.

You just gotta hang in there. Like a rusty fishing hook sometimes.

Edited August 30, 2008 by Sabr

[filirican 3]

i had been on that situation..but as they say patience is a virtue and when the good news comes...its gonna come all the way in..goodluck!

[ed g 0]

HI all,

I just got back from spending ten wonderful days with my husband in the Dominican Rupublic, however, I am soooooooooooo depressed now. I hate leaving him and the rest of my family to come back to the states. My K-3 NOA1 was June 6, 2008. I feel that it's never going to get approved. i know it's been only a few months but i feel like it's been an eternity. How do you guys cope. also what are your thoughts, as to when my husband will be here with me. Please Advise.

I know exactly how you feel. I have made 4 trips to Romania to see my wife. It is always nice to visit but coming home alone is very depressing. I got my NOA1 April 1st. and still waiting. Hang in there. good luck!

[emptyheart248 0]

hi everyone im new here, im extremely depressed, and its hard to have the love of your life separated by distance.

so please give me advice and support so that i too, can be strong like you and many others who are in our shoes.

can you guys help me?

I applied for I-130 in april 25 2008,

they recived it may 05 2008

i received the Notice of Action may 12 2008

Today is August 30

Im dying in sinde

how much more to go.

please please please pleaseee help me any one.

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

Do something to keep you busy. Do laundry, clean your home, take up learning a language, learn to cook new recipes, do and exercise plan, learn to grow a garden. Be productive because it could be a long wait and realize that it's out of our hands.

[Terca 6]

One of the reasons I feel so at home in this forum is precisely the fact that others just like you are in my same position. coming back to the states and leaving your loved one behind never gets easier!! in fact I believe it gets harder every time, so let me share with you the mantra my FH and I always repeat to ourselves when we are having those "depressed" days.

" One more day without you has passed, One more day that brings us closer"

Remember that every day that passes is one less day in your wait! One more day closer to being together finally