You wanted and Not Getting...

[LotofPatience 65]

Suppose you WANTED something and NOT GETTING it soon...

What would be your feeling ???

It is not off-topic, you can relate it with your life, visa etc...

[kishmar 0]

Suppose you WANTED something and NOT GETTING it soon...

What would be your feeling ???

It is not off-topic, you can relate it with your life, visa etc...

I so much want to be with my husband after 4 years of dealing with immigration. Im now at the final stage with my case being completed from April 25th and i still cant get an interview date at Kingston Embassy

I marvel at how smoothly and quickly your process was completed and i even read somewhere that your SO SSN came in the mail today!

Edited July 25, 2008 by kishmar

[LotofPatience 65]

Suppose you WANTED something and NOT GETTING it soon...

What would be your feeling ???

It is not off-topic, you can relate it with your life, visa etc...

I so much want to be with my husband after 4 years of dealing with immigration. Im now at the final stage with my case being completed from April 25th and i still cant get an interview date at Kingston Embassy

Wow, great answer! When you meet your husband, may be in couple of months time in the U.S, this looooooong wait will be fruitful... Let me tell one thing, long separation will have more attachment........

Suppose you WANTED something and NOT GETTING it soon...

What would be your feeling ???

It is not off-topic, you can relate it with your life, visa etc...

I so much want to be with my husband after 4 years of dealing with immigration. Im now at the final stage with my case being completed from April 25th and i still cant get an interview date at Kingston Embassy

I marvel at how smoothly and quickly your process was completed and i even read somewhere that your SO SSN came in the mail today!

Thanks kishmar. It is not great... It is a combination of luck and paper work, that's all...

[SraCastillo 0]

I want to have my religious wedding soon

and it's not happening any time soon because of not being together

I need my husband with me in order to start the preparations for the catholic ceremony

I want babies and they also are not coming any time soon

because I'm not married by the church and I don't want to become pregnant before that

I can't look for another job or studied something new because I have no brain for it due to the fact that all day long I think about my husband so I have no mind for nothing else besides him.

therefore my life is pending on my immigration process when that gets done then I will be able to back on track again!

[LotofPatience 65]

I want to have my religious wedding soon

and it's not happening any time soon because of not being together

I need my husband with me in order to start the preparations for the catholic ceremony

I want babies and they also are not coming any time soon

because I'm not married by the church and I don't want to become pregnant before that

I can't look for another job or studied something new because I have no brain for it due to the fact that all day long I think about my husband so I have no mind for nothing else besides him.

therefore my life is pending on my immigration process when that gets done then I will be able to back on track again!

Your delay is not that bad since you're a Feb I-130 filer in USCIS point of view. However, as a human, I can understand your feelings, and let the God bless for all your ambitions

[SraCastillo 0]

Thanks Lotto you are my Hero here! i feel like i know you in person! i'm not complaining because i knew that was going to be hard but i really want that wedding and it seems like is not going to happen anytime soon my civil ceremony was nice though everybody was like if this is the civil wedding what should we expect from the religious one.

[LotofPatience 65]

Thanks Lotto you are my Hero here! i feel like i know you in person! i'm not complaining because i knew that was going to be hard but i really want that wedding and it seems like is not going to happen anytime soon my civil ceremony was nice though everybody was like if this is the civil wedding what should we expect from the religious one.

Past is past, however, I wanted to say this, probably one who reads this may benefited.

If you could have postponed your religious ceremony, you could have postponed the civil cermoney too and apply for K-1 (Finance/ee) visa which is the fastest and the beneficiary could be in the U.S within 2-3 months time.

I know in India, most of the families will not agree my above opinion since they are scared to give their daughter to an "unknown" person. I had suggested it to my wife and got a negative response. But later, after couple of months of I-130 filing, my wife herself told me we didn't listen you... I was the happiest man in the world when I heard that

[SraCastillo 0]

Yes Lotto same thing happened with me. I didn't want to bring him as my fiancée because we were told that it was easy to be denied specially in Dominican Republic plus my parents didn't like the idea of the fiancée thing they wanted me to bring him as my husband. but now that I check places like this one I see that I should it have done it like that but God knows why he put us in this road. and definitely I believe that this whole process instead of decreased our love it has made it stronger. he worries so much about me and we have no problems besides the distance other than that we share everyday by email when we are at work and then at home we chat and then we call each other to speak till we feel sleepy. so besides the distance I could say that I have a happy relationship and now I'm very excited about my upcoming trip! August 14th

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I am basically impatient.. I do get easily irritated. The type that, if you said today then do it today person.

This journey is kinda hard for me. Imagine that my whole life is at the hands of people which I do not have direct contact. I mean, in the office you could resolve things because you are in contact with people in the business circle but in VISA case .... I hate it!

Edited July 25, 2008 by CaNdiD wiTcH

[LotofPatience 65]

Yes Lotto same thing happened with me. I didn't want to bring him as my fiancée because we were told that it was easy to be denied specially in Dominican Republic plus my parents didn't like the idea of the fiancée thing they wanted me to bring him as my husband. but now that I check places like this one I see that I should it have done it like that but God knows why he put us in this road. and definitely I believe that this whole process instead of decreased our love it has made it stronger. he worries so much about me and we have no problems besides the distance other than that we share everyday by email when we are at work and then at home we chat and then we call each other to speak till we feel sleepy. so besides the distance I could say that I have a happy relationship and now I'm very excited about my upcoming trip! August 14th

Good luck to your trip to Dominican Republic on Aug 14th

I love South America and its natural beauty and want to visit those places one day in future... I have a best friend from Panama, he is Asst. VP in the bank of my previous consulting position... He describes all those places and I just loved it...

[LotofPatience 65]

I am basically impatient.. I do get easily irritated. The type that, if you said today then do it today person.

This journey is kinda hard for me. Imagine that my whole life is at the hands of people which I do not have direct contact. I mean, in the office you could resolve things because you are in contact with people in the business circle but in VISA case .... I hate it!

Most of the people including me are like yours... But the degree varies, that's all... You have to be impatient in this immigration process, nevertheless, in the actual life, patience (anger management) is needed for success... Whenever I become angry, I was the loser...

[Kathassane 0]

Thanks Lotto you are my Hero here! i feel like i know you in person! i'm not complaining because i knew that was going to be hard but i really want that wedding and it seems like is not going to happen anytime soon my civil ceremony was nice though everybody was like if this is the civil wedding what should we expect from the religious one.

Past is past, however, I wanted to say this, probably one who reads this may benefited.

If you could have postponed your religious ceremony, you could have postponed the civil cermoney too and apply for K-1 (Finance/ee) visa which is the fastest and the beneficiary could be in the U.S within 2-3 months time.

I know in India, most of the families will not agree my above opinion since they are scared to give their daughter to an "unknown" person. I had suggested it to my wife and got a negative response. But later, after couple of months of I-130 filing, my wife herself told me we didn't listen you... I was the happiest man in the world when I heard that

Hey loto I was told the same thing years ago that the fiance visa only took a short time, and i see it too, but not for us, our case was approved and our case was sent back to the US and was lost and not found until after it expired. so we had to start the process over again, but we were told by a state officials office that once the application didn't succeed then we can't file it again, so we got married and we wait,

its so hard to wait , but its harder to wait when you see people from other countries getting approved so quickly

and they have the nerve to post and complain that there cases are moving slowly

I was just on the phone with my husband, opened my email and found nothing from CRIS, then opened the USCIS site and still no approval , no touches, nothing at all

and with each page opened I became more sad, my husband says if our GOD wants it now it will happen now, which I understand, and I understand that because we have waited we have grown even closer, also I know its in GOD's hands if we are to be together in life, but to be together now is in the hands of immigration and for some reason they are taking forever in our case, it doesn't make any sense,

Loto about something else, have you seen the post on here where there are a bunch of us with a last touch of 2/24/08 that was the last any of us have heard from VCS, do you think they could have lost our files and what should we do, do you have any idea?

Loto like someone else posted its like I know you in person, I am sure all my questions have driven you crazy, so I apologize

I really hope your trip to Canada this weekend will be wonderful for you both

Take care

Kathleen

[CaNdiD wiTcH 0]

I am basically impatient.. I do get easily irritated. The type that, if you said today then do it today person.

This journey is kinda hard for me. Imagine that my whole life is at the hands of people which I do not have direct contact. I mean, in the office you could resolve things because you are in contact with people in the business circle but in VISA case .... I hate it!

Most of the people including me are like yours... But the degree varies, that's all... You have to be impatient in this immigration process, nevertheless, in the actual life, patience (anger management) is needed for success... Whenever I become angry, I was the loser...

It turns out that my being impatient gets good results career wise..

[SraCastillo 0]

I am basically impatient.. I do get easily irritated. The type that, if you said today then do it today person.

This journey is kinda hard for me. Imagine that my whole life is at the hands of people which I do not have direct contact. I mean, in the office you could resolve things because you are in contact with people in the business circle but in VISA case .... I hate it!

Most of the people including me are like yours... But the degree varies, that's all... You have to be impatient in this immigration process, nevertheless, in the actual life, patience (anger management) is needed for success... Whenever I become angry, I was the loser...

It turns out that my being impatient gets good results career wise..

jejeje I'm agree with you that's the reason I'm getting way to anxious about my case and I know I should be patient and I do feel happy for others when I see their approvals specially when they are struggling more than I will ever do. BUTTTT I hate to depend on others! I have always find my way to get what I wanted in life thank God I have a great job but right now in order to get a even better position I need to have a masters degree but I have no mind whatsoever for that for the first time in my life i feel like i'm stuck but i guess God is testing me to see if my love for my husband is real and vice versa.

[Amy B. 0]

I want for my husband to come home and we live a long, loving , & peaceful life together......insha allaah!!!

We have only a few days left now till the interview and all we & our families have been doing is praying that everything will go smoothly and he will get the visa and insha allaah not have to be put on AP for a long period of time or at all for that matter. ( maybe some wishful thinking there)

This process can either break you or it can make you even that much more stronger with your husband/wife and Alhumdulilah..........ours is stronger. We have learned patience, ( or I should say me.....since I have never had such patience as now), we communicate better and I have seen changes in my husband and myself during this process. It takes its toll on you, but together, we can make it through anything.

It has been over a year since we started this process and we hope that the light at the end of OUR tunnel........will be in a few days--- July 31st!!!! insha allaah.........

We just have to stay strong and have our faith in Allah!!!

please send some of your blessings/prayers our way............July 31st is OUR BIG DAY!!!!!!!!!!!

Aisha