JOURNEY ENDED

[amerasianlove 0]

U must be kidding......I hope u can patch things up right away.

Just think about what u have gone through all this waiting time and it will strengthen your relationship.

I wish you both all the best!!

God bless!

[chris-lei 1]

Visa processing is indeed a journey..you need someone to walk with you with every step. The process and the waiting will really try your patience and love. I hope you can still work things out. Pray for God's guidance and may He give you peace. God bless you..

[macutelit 0]

why????

[Zee Bee 61]

If I read your timeline right you were approved in June. So that means an interview is just around the corner.

Good luck to you

[bevs 0]

dont give up that easy. i been waiting for almost 3 yrs and 7 mos now, yet we didnt let this journey end us, we been to lots of ups and down but girl please be patient and dont decide that quick. hope u guys can able to fix things needed to be fix. please for your love for each other.

[hyper609 0]

From your post, it would seem that the feeling was mutual. Waiting doesn't have anything to do with it (albeit a small part). "For love endures forever. " If it was meant to be.....then so be it. I fully respect both your decisions and wish you the best of luck in finding the one true love that is waiting for you.

[~bLairwhich~ 0]

I haven't a clue as to how my story will end. But that's all right. When you set out on a journey and night covers the road, you don't conclude the road has vanished. And how else could we discover the stars?”

I don't know you personally gurl, but I justw ant you to know that long distance relationship have it's up and downs, I realized that for a relationship to survive, one should be always "forgiving".

Forgive the one you love, but think twice about saying good-bye and forgetting.

God Bless you, I'm sure there's a good life coming your way, after all.

blairbitxh

Edited July 15, 2008 by blairbitxh

[honeybadger 0]

Hi!

Sorry to hear this!

Hope you guys can make things work out ! Please be strong and pray for enlightenment and guidance!

hope we could hear good news from you anytime soon!

God Bless!

[baxxy 0]

Our journey has ended.

We couldn't wait any longer we both decided to just end our relationship.

We're not meant for each other.

Goodluck to all of you here.

Richel

[baxxy 0]

Our journey has ended.

We couldn't wait any longer we both decided to just end our relationship.

We're not meant for each other.

Goodluck to all of you here.

Richel

Sorry to hear that. It wasn't meant to be if that's what happened. What happened? I'm having some issues with my fiance too, and sometimes I feel like doing the same thing.

[sunandmoon 450]

reading your post, it doesn't appear this was a spur of the moment decision. I wish you both the best in whatever path you decide to take...

[RickieAndEva 0]

This process is the first test of all of our relationships. If we can endure that extreme heartache that we all experienced when we left our loved one at the airport just before starting this process--not knowing when we will be seeing each other again--and then the paperwork, the documents, the stupid bureaucracy, the seemingly endless waiting--we will know our love will endure. You have gone this far. You are so close. Don't give up.

[chadherm 0]

im sorry to hear that. I hope you guys can fix it....Yes it is really hard to be far apart but we need to be strong.

[higantetingting 0]

i'm soweeee to hear that. i dont know what the story behind that.

i suggest you pray. better you talk to your fiancee fix it. lift him up. and pray together while talking to each other. never give up its a challenges for your relationship. its god challenges too they both of you want to be strong. read a bible and pray girl i suggest.

and if you need a friend in your side to talk about it. you need advise where all here just join in conference. like jego ryu said where here. where all here open arm to help you.

you only have 1 sandata PRAY!

always take care

GOD BLESS YOU

higantetingting

[dbears 1]

Our journey has ended.

We couldn't wait any longer we both decided to just end our relationship.

We're not meant for each other.

Goodluck to all of you here.

Richel

Sorry to hear that. It wasn't meant to be if that's what happened. What happened? I'm having some issues with my fiance too, and sometimes I feel like doing the same thing.

Distance is a test, this visa journey with all it's twist and turns is just another hurdle but these are merely the tip of the iceberg. The real test comes after we are reunited with our SOs and have passed the honeymoon stage. Relationship will have its ups and downs until the very end. Some couple have happy ending, till death do they part stories.... some end after a few years... some end after a few decades.... and some end even before they have truly started.

Richel: You are almost there, it is easy to say that it will be a waste to end this when you are so close to being together. But for couple to end it at the stage your visa process is in, there must be a very good reason. We don't know what happened and no matter what advice you get in the end it will still be you who will have to decide. It is your life anyway, and as long as you have thought this over and over and have talked it out with your fiance, and as long as this is a decision that you are confident would truly be for the best then we can only respect your decision and wish you well. I just hope you will someday find the happiness and the love that you are looking for.

baxxy: try to evaluate your feelings.. try to talk things out with your partner more... try to talk about other things aside from this sometimes frustrating visa process.... try to ask yourself if being with him is what you really want. I wish you the best.

Our pastor's wife told me last year that being married to the right person is the best thing in the world BUT being married to the wrong person is a fate worst than hell. May both of you find wisdom, refuge and strength in God.