Ano ang Iyong Gagawin???

[jego ryu 0]

ANO ANG GAGAWIN MO KAPAG NALAMAN MO OR NAHULI MO NA MAY IBANG BABAE ANG FIANCE OR ASAWA MO?(first reaction)......be honest......

a)kakausapin mo sya ng mahinahon bakit nya nagawa yun at patatawarin mo sya kapag humingi ng 2nd chance

b)hihiwalayan mo na sya once na malaman mo

c)hahayaan mo lang sya kasi lilipas din yan(magbulag bulagan ba)

d)aawayin mo sya and yun babae

e)papatayin mo sya

kung nangyari na sa inyo ito you can share it.....

[envy_me 18]

A)kakausapin mo sya ng mahinahon bakit nya nagawa yun at patatawarin mo sya kapag humingi ng 2nd chance

but he doesnt need to ask for a second chance.. i mean he's only human... nagkakamali..

im not perfect and im not sayin that i wont make mistakes in the future..

and also im not sayin that i will make mistakes in the future..

it's just that i believe things are bound to happen.. with reasons..

im not tryin to be hypocritical here..

i mean yes it is painful.. f*ckin painful..

but nothin that we can do abt it once it already happened..

i can always forgive but i shant, wont, cant and dont forget..

it is very, very hard to forget.. as long as im alive, it's alive din..

forget is for the dead.. :devil: :devil: :devil: :devil:

[o0pink0o 3]

ano na naman itong pakana mo jego_ryu hehe joke lang!

i have never been in this kind of situation but for me, it is really impossible that my husband will betray me but ok ok IF i will be in that situation i guess i'll be so mad at him caz i don't think i deserve being treated that way wherein i am so loyal to him. But in case he ask for forgiveness then ok i can forgive him BUT if he do it again then i won't ever forgive him again

[RyaNRiza 1]

When I give my trust it's 101% so therefore trust is a very big issue for me. I don't know if I could trust again once I am betrayed. I have not ever have this kind of issue in my mind, I really don't know what I am going to do. One thing I am so sure of, I will be very very very very very broken down inside.

Deep inside me, I don't think my fiance/husband will do this to me because I am quite important to him. When I am hurt, his pain doubles, the same way I feel for him

[jego ryu 0]

ano na naman itong pakana mo jego_ryu hehe joke lang!

i have never been in this kind of situation but for me, it is really impossible that my husband will betray me but ok ok IF i will be in that situation i guess i'll be so mad at him caz i don't think i deserve being treated that way wherein i am so loyal to him. But in case he ask for forgiveness then ok i can forgive him BUT if he do it again then i won't ever forgive him again

LOL...gusto ko lang malaman ang mga reaction nyo ,,,,,,kasi ito na yung pinakamahirap na question sa atin,di natin alam kung anong magiging reaction natin lol....

agree ako sa inyo ni envy me....everybody deserve 2nd chance kung si god nagpapatawad tau pa kaya....but forget about that maybe it takes time,,,,,,it happened to me jus last year,,,,7years na kami ng fiance ,,,,i guess pagsubok how strong we are,,mahirap kasi pag un other woman ang naghahabol....i forgive him coz pinagsisihan nya talaga and he kneeled down and asked for forgiveness.... since 1year ago na yun i start to forget about it and moved on my baby kasi kami,,,,i can say na were really happy and more strong na relationship namin now...pero i know my kanya kanya tayong opinyon about that.....

[o0pink0o 3]

ano na naman itong pakana mo jego_ryu hehe joke lang!

i have never been in this kind of situation but for me, it is really impossible that my husband will betray me but ok ok IF i will be in that situation i guess i'll be so mad at him caz i don't think i deserve being treated that way wherein i am so loyal to him. But in case he ask for forgiveness then ok i can forgive him BUT if he do it again then i won't ever forgive him again

LOL...gusto ko lang malaman ang mga reaction nyo ,,,,,,kasi ito na yung pinakamahirap na question sa atin,di natin alam kung anong magiging reaction natin lol....

agree ako sa inyo ni envy me....everybody deserve 2nd chance kung si god nagpapatawad tau pa kaya....but forget about that maybe it takes time,,,,,,it happened to me jus last year,,,,7years na kami ng fiance ,,,,i guess pagsubok how strong we are,,mahirap kasi pag un other woman ang naghahabol....i forgive him coz pinagsisihan nya talaga and he kneeled down and asked for forgiveness.... since 1year ago na yun i start to forget about it and moved on my baby kasi kami,,,,i can say na were really happy and more strong na relationship namin now...pero i know my kanya kanya tayong opinyon about that.....

ay ganun ba? naku sana nga hindi na nya ulitin pa and i'm happy na at least na overcome nyo na yun

[jego ryu 0]

ano na naman itong pakana mo jego_ryu hehe joke lang!

i have never been in this kind of situation but for me, it is really impossible that my husband will betray me but ok ok IF i will be in that situation i guess i'll be so mad at him caz i don't think i deserve being treated that way wherein i am so loyal to him. But in case he ask for forgiveness then ok i can forgive him BUT if he do it again then i won't ever forgive him again

LOL...gusto ko lang malaman ang mga reaction nyo ,,,,,,kasi ito na yung pinakamahirap na question sa atin,di natin alam kung anong magiging reaction natin lol....

agree ako sa inyo ni envy me....everybody deserve 2nd chance kung si god nagpapatawad tau pa kaya....but forget about that maybe it takes time,,,,,,it happened to me jus last year,,,,7years na kami ng fiance ,,,,i guess pagsubok how strong we are,,mahirap kasi pag un other woman ang naghahabol....i forgive him coz pinagsisihan nya talaga and he kneeled down and asked for forgiveness.... since 1year ago na yun i start to forget about it and moved on my baby kasi kami,,,,i can say na were really happy and more strong na relationship namin now...pero i know my kanya kanya tayong opinyon about that.....

ay ganun ba? naku sana nga hindi na nya ulitin pa and i'm happy na at least na overcome nyo na yun

yes na overcome na namin,,,ganun talaga siguru pagsubok sa relationship namin kasi medyo matagal na rin kami....yun first 5yrs namin wala kaming naging problem....jus last year lang kc di na kami masyado nagkikita,,,,kasi umuwi me dito pinas unlike noon magkasama kami sa isang house for 4yrs.....

[chris-lei 1]

hmmmm...a tough question! BUT! it's harder if you've been in that situation..and hardest if that happens to you not but once but twice! that happened to me. but not with my fiance. i had not so good past relationships. i had more than my fair share. here it goes:

1st bf: we were together for 6 years, we're both med students that time. then he met a pretty med student a batch younger than us. they hit it off. sad to say he dumped me.

2nd bf: we were steady for 3 years. he's a fellow doctor, with good looks. so who wouldnt fall for him? he's a real player. during the time we're an item he would date females from all walks of life. young, old, pretty, not-so-pretty, doctor, nurse, medtechs, students..i guess he dated every single gril in our hospital. stupid as i am..i didnt give up on him. he would always promise me he'd stop womanizing. then i would forgive him..then the cycle begins and repeats itself. then one day, i found out he got 2 of his gf's pregnant. that was the end of it.

3rd bf: he's a divorcee with 3 kids from 3 different moms, 9 years my senior. so you'd say, what i was thinking by sticking with him for 2 1/2 years. i kept telling myself that i love him. then he did it again! he got another girl pregnant. hayyy.

thank God..He answered my prayer. he gave chris to me. chris taught me how to trust someone again enough to commit my future with him. i hope and pray he'll not give me heartaches anymore.. what i had was more than enough.

Edited June 12, 2008 by chris-lei

[envy_me 18]

hmmmm...a tough question! BUT! it's harder if you've been in that situation..and hardest if that happens to you not but once but twice! that happened to me. but not with my fiance. i had not so good past relationships. i had more than my fair share. here it goes:

1st bf: we were together for 6 years, we're both med students that time. then he met a pretty med student a batch younger than us. they hit it off. sad to say he dumped me.

2nd bf: we were steady for 3 years. he's a fellow doctor, with good looks. so who wouldnt fall for him? he's a real player. during the time we're an item he would date females from all walks of life. young, old, pretty, not-so-pretty, doctor, nurse, medtechs, students..i guess he dated every single gril in our hospital. stupid as i am..i didnt give up on him. he would always promise me he'd stop womanizing. then i would forgive him..then the cycle begins and repeats itself. then one day, i found out he got 2 of his gf's pregnant. that was the end of it.

3rd bf: he's a divorcee with 3 kids from 3 different moms, 9 years my senior. so you'd say, what i was thinking by sticking with him for 2 1/2 years. i kept telling myself that i love him. then he did it again! he got another girl pregnant. hayyy.

thank God..He answered my prayer. he gave chris to me. chris taught me how to trust someone again enough to commit my future with him. i hope and pray he'll not give me heartaches anymore.. what i had was more than enough.

grabe kala ko pang telenovela lang ang ganto..

[envy_me 18]

agree ako sa inyo ni envy me....everybody deserve 2nd chance kung si god nagpapatawad tau pa kaya....but forget about that maybe it takes time,,,,,,it happened to me jus last year,,,,7years na kami ng fiance ,,,,i guess pagsubok how strong we are,,mahirap kasi pag un other woman ang naghahabol....i forgive him coz pinagsisihan nya talaga and he kneeled down and asked for forgiveness.... since 1year ago na yun i start to forget about it and moved on my baby kasi kami,,,,i can say na were really happy and more strong na relationship namin now...pero i know my kanya kanya tayong opinyon about that.....

hehe..

ako i got a bf for more than 5yrs before..

7 times ako nagforgive sa kanya before, eh nawili ata..

nakakasawa din, there'll come a point na you'll tell urself enough is enough..

oh well.. kahet humabol pa sha ngayon.. i got a better man in my life na so sorry na lang sha..

PS: hi gtron.. i love u..

Edited June 12, 2008 by envy_me

[o0pink0o 3]

i found out he got 2 of his gf's pregnant

sheesh!

[chris-lei 1]

Yan din ang akala ko..now, looking back.. dami ko naman lesson na natutunan sa mga lalaking yan!!!! i had my lessons the hardest way..

[envy_me 18]

Yan din ang akala ko..now, looking back.. dami ko naman lesson na natutunan sa mga lalaking yan!!!! i had my lessons the hardest way..

the greatest teacher is our experience..

tho hardest way.. it'll make you stronger, even better person..

[chris-lei 1]

nakakasawa din, there'll come a point na you'll tell urself enough is enough..

oh well.. kahet humabol pa sha ngayon.. i got a better man in my life na so sorry na lang sha..

KOREK KA DIYAN! maghabol sila ngayon sa tambol mayor! pero di ba? after all those tears and heartaches, we became a better person. that's the important thing!

[envy_me 18]

KOREK KA DIYAN! maghabol sila ngayon sa tambol mayor! pero di ba? after all those tears and heartaches, we became a better person. that's the important thing!

hahaha astig look at my post.. same thing sinabe natin.. better person..