HELP!!!!!!!!!!

[lovin_famo 0]

Hello to everyone!

Well, i just returned from meeting my fiance, and i must say, i am Scared beyond belief. first, the trip was wonderful, my fiance was wonderful, and his family wonderful. okay so maybe i am rambling now, but everyone knows what my feelings are at this point. i just wanted to hear from someone who knows, i have read the process over and over, i know what i must do now, but i need support, i am out of my my mind with worry, that we will not be approved, that i will not see him again, yes, i know God will provide, just need a little encouragement, and yes i am crazy, crazy in love! All replies are welcome, thanks,

Mrs. Famodun

[MAO36 30]

Hello Girl!

Well.... If you can answer yes to "Can you trust him"? Are you sure you want to marry him? A good list of why you want to marry him?

Are you ready for the Immigration journey? You shouldn't be denied unless there are serious issues in his past which would prevent him from being approved. If there aren't then you should be good to go. It can be lonely and expensive at times but if you're sure he is the one for you, not just being in love but having the WHOLE package, then LET THE JOURNEY BEGIN!!!!!

You listed K1 so I'm assuming you're not married yet.

WELCOME TO VJ

[Sylvia_n_Joseph 3]

Welcome to the waiting room ... It seems that you will do a lot of that between now and when you two are together here.

[Zee Bee 61]

First, you need to take a deep breath. This process is long and stressful and you do yourself no favors by anticipating that nothing is going to go right. You need to make sure that you are educated in the process. Read the guides and read other people's experiences, good and bad.

Stressing out about denials and all the other bad things that may happen is not going to help you. Worry about those if/when you get to that point. Making yourself sick with worry about what MAY happen does not help, especially when a vast number of people (at least on VJ) follow the guides here and have no problems whatsoever.

Study the guides and ask any questions if you have. There are plenty of people on here that are more than willing to help you with any issues if you need it.

Educate your fiance about the process as well. When we were starting out I sent my fiance links to all the stuff I was doing on my side and then sent him the embassy reviews and other tidbits that other people have shared. Talk to your fiance about what you have learned here on VJ and encourage him to come online and read. Believe me, it helps them learn about the process as well.

Just take it one day at a time. Remember, people have done it before you and others will continue after you. It is a doable process.

[lovin_famo 0]

Hello Girl!

Well.... If you can answer yes to "Can you trust him"? Are you sure you want to marry him? A good list of why you want to marry him?

Are you ready for the Immigration journey? You shouldn't be denied unless there are serious issues in his past which would prevent him from being approved. If there aren't then you should be good to go. It can be lonely and expensive at times but if you're sure he is the one for you, not just being in love but having the WHOLE package, then LET THE JOURNEY BEGIN!!!!!

You listed K1 so I'm assuming you're not married yet.

WELCOME TO VJ

yes, yes, and yes! I wont go into specifics, but my faith is so strong that i am letting God lead me, He has not failed me so far. so yes i am ready for this journey and whatever it takes to bring us together. Thanks for the reply, and God bless!

[lovin_famo 0]

First, you need to take a deep breath. This process is long and stressful and you do yourself no favors by anticipating that nothing is going to go right. You need to make sure that you are educated in the process. Read the guides and read other people's experiences, good and bad.

Stressing out about denials and all the other bad things that may happen is not going to help you. Worry about those if/when you get to that point. Making yourself sick with worry about what MAY happen does not help, especially when a vast number of people (at least on VJ) follow the guides here and have no problems whatsoever.

Study the guides and ask any questions if you have. There are plenty of people on here that are more than willing to help you with any issues if you need it.

Educate your fiance about the process as well. When we were starting out I sent my fiance links to all the stuff I was doing on my side and then sent him the embassy reviews and other tidbits that other people have shared. Talk to your fiance about what you have learned here on VJ and encourage him to come online and read. Believe me, it helps them learn about the process as well.

Just take it one day at a time. Remember, people have done it before you and others will continue after you. It is a doable process.

yes, you are correct. although i must say it is my fiance who keeps me abreast of everything related to the site. i have been reading, and re-reading everthing just to make sure i am not missing anything. anything worth having is worth the hard work and the patience, that is my belief. thanks for taking the time to inform a newbie such as myself, your words are very encouraging and that is what i need at this point. keep us in your prayers, God Bless!

[Ta Ta 1]

Welcome to the site and especially the sub-saharan family. Post your thoughts whenever you want to and we will be here for you.

Check out the sub-saharan cyber cafe thread for small talk too.

[stevi1123 0]

Welcome to Visajourney. You are so excited! I pray that you and your fiance have a smooth journey towards togetherness.

[boo boo 1]

I wish you the best and I am sure that everything will work out in your favor. You and your SO look so happy...welcome to VJ

[forchika 4]

Hello welcome to visa journey,

You have been given some good advice!!!! I wish you well on your visa journey!!!!!!

[lovin_famo 0]

Hello welcome to visa journey,

You have been given some good advice!!!! I wish you well on your visa journey!!!!!!

thank you very much, keep us in your prayers!

[lovin_famo 0]

Welcome to Visajourney. You are so excited! I pray that you and your fiance have a smooth journey towards togetherness.

i love this site! yes i am very excited, thank you, God bless!

[totes 0]

Hello to everyone!

Well, i just returned from meeting my fiance, and i must say, i am Scared beyond belief. first, the trip was wonderful, my fiance was wonderful, and his family wonderful. okay so maybe i am rambling now, but everyone knows what my feelings are at this point. i just wanted to hear from someone who knows, i have read the process over and over, i know what i must do now, but i need support, i am out of my my mind with worry, that we will not be approved, that i will not see him again, yes, i know God will provide, just need a little encouragement, and yes i am crazy, crazy in love! All replies are welcome, thanks,

Mrs. Famodun

Welcome to VJ! I just returned from Nigeria myself, WOW is all I can say! You're in the right place. I agree with what the other members have been saying about reading everything you can on this site. Knowledge IS power! You are very fortunate to have found this site before you start your journey, there is a wealth of information and support here.

Again, welcome!

[lovin_famo 0]

I wish you the best and I am sure that everything will work out in your favor. You and your SO look so happy...welcome to VJ

Thanks Boo Boo! Dont forget about us, continue to pray for everyone, including my fiance and I! Peace!

[GOLDEN.247 0]

Welcome to VJ

This is the best site for Accurate & Helpful answers. There are a lot of members that will support you.

Good Luck with your Journey