got k1 visa twice used up, didn't marry, i need some help

[kitty katkat 0]

Hi, I have a very complicated question. My ex fiance filed a k1 petition for me last 2004. I went to USA, but then he is so nice that he said he wasn't ready and didn't marry me, so I came back home to the Philippines. One month later, he realized he was wrong, so he filed one again for me... we had on and off relationship so the petition was approved but we postponed and cancel and reactivate. Last February 2008, I went to US again to marry him,,, but he is really really nice that he said he can't marry.

My question is, I am the victim here, What if I meet someone new and would like to petition me, will it be a huge problem? I know I will never go back to my ex anymore, I feel like it is a game for him. My worriy is my future application if ever. I am back to the Philippines again anyway. Didn't stay more than 90 days in the US.

[Mononoke28 135]

Are you being sarcastic when you say that he was "really really nice" when he chose not to marry you the third time around? I sure hope so.

And no, I don't think you'll have a problem if you meet someone else and files for you as long as your new relationship is legit and you can prove it. They will be two different petitions.

Diana

[kitty katkat 0]

Are you being sarcastic when you say that he was "really really nice" when he chose not to marry you the third time around? I sure hope so.

And no, I don't think you'll have a problem if you meet someone else and files for you as long as your new relationship is legit and you can prove it. They will be two different petitions.

Diana

yeah, i don't want to say bad thing against him. It is so depressing to waste 5 yrs of nothing. Hopefully you are correct, But how long will I wait to petition for another one?

[payxibka 10,045]

Are you being sarcastic when you say that he was "really really nice" when he chose not to marry you the third time around? I sure hope so.

And no, I don't think you'll have a problem if you meet someone else and files for you as long as your new relationship is legit and you can prove it. They will be two different petitions.

Diana

yeah, i don't want to say bad thing against him. It is so depressing to waste 5 yrs of nothing. Hopefully you are correct, But how long will I wait to petition for another one?

Duplicate posting

As the alien, you do NOT petition for anything as an I-129F petition can only be submitted by a USC.

[sara..... 371]

Hi, I have a very complicated question. My ex fiance filed a k1 petition for me last 2004. I went to USA, but then he is so nice that he said he wasn't ready and didn't marry me, so I came back home to the Philippines. One month later, he realized he was wrong, so he filed one again for me... we had on and off relationship so the petition was approved but we postponed and cancel and reactivate. Last February 2008, I went to US again to marry him,,, but he is really really nice that he said he can't marry.

My question is, I am the victim here, What if I meet someone new and would like to petition me, will it be a huge problem? I know I will never go back to my ex anymore, I feel like it is a game for him. My worriy is my future application if ever. I am back to the Philippines again anyway. Didn't stay more than 90 days in the US.

wow im really sorry that happened to u but best i can tell if someone meets u and u fall in love there is not reason for him not to be able to apply for u.......because of the other applications im sure u will get a lot of questions about it when it comes to interview time but is should be fine good luck........

[~Laura and Nick~ 5]

Take time for you and heal.

Let love find you, don't go looking for it....especially not someone who will simply be "petitioning" for you. Make sure it's the real thing.

You deserve more than that...even if the person you fall in love with ends up being from your own country and you stay there...just make sure you are happy.

I'm so sorry this happened to you...it's sad that all that time was wasted, learn from it and move on.

Best of luck.

[alienlovechild 75]

"My ex fiance filed a k1 petition for me last 2004. I went to USA, but then he is so nice that he said he wasn't ready and didn't marry me, so I came back home to the Philippines. One month later, he realized he was wrong, so he filed one again for me... we had on and off relationship so the petition was approved but we postponed and cancel and reactivate. Last February 2008, I went to US again to marry him,,, but he is really really nice that he said he can't marry."

I can understand getting cold feet before the wedding and deciding to call it off but to go through the same thing again is beyond belief. I'm just pointing out the obvious but he's had his chance twice and hopefully you'll find a guy who can stand by this word. If you try this visa process again after finding a suitable man, I suggest you ask a lot of questions pertaining to the ability to commit to marriage. Don't waste years on one man who can't make up his mind.

[tashyta 0]

Hi, I have a very complicated question. My ex fiance filed a k1 petition for me last 2004. I went to USA, but then he is so nice that he said he wasn't ready and didn't marry me, so I came back home to the Philippines. One month later, he realized he was wrong, so he filed one again for me... we had on and off relationship so the petition was approved but we postponed and cancel and reactivate. Last February 2008, I went to US again to marry him,,, but he is really really nice that he said he can't marry.

My question is, I am the victim here, What if I meet someone new and would like to petition me, will it be a huge problem? I know I will never go back to my ex anymore, I feel like it is a game for him. My worriy is my future application if ever. I am back to the Philippines again anyway. Didn't stay more than 90 days in the US.

That's funny, I'm in the same boat. But my situation is worth. The first time I came here just to meet his family and to visit him. The second time I'm still here in US for 1 year and 1 month, still not married and he doesn't seem to worry about it a lot. I had a chance to leave on May 4th but he asked me to stay and promised that he'll work on our relationship. But I started to doubt that he is still going to marry me. I have another chance to leave back home omJune 1st and I definetela not going to blow this chance. So right now I'm facing 3 year bar:) So, you did great job not staying there for more than 90 days!!! I don't think you'll have any problems if someone will decide to fill a petition for you, though I agree the embassador will ask you a lot of questions. Sorry, that it happened to you too!!! Good luck and God bless you!!!