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We have a 32 year age difference and haven't had any issues thus far. We just filed to lift conditions.

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Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

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Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

:whistle:

Well, when u live in a culture where people turn their noses up and a 7yr difference it's different. And therefore you seek out people/persons that share you issue, so it is worth posting. My culture !# YEARS is a big deal to most. If ur dating someone younger than ur kid then there's a problem significantly or not...

Well, in my case, that would just be plain SICK............

I cannot even grabs the concept :huh: Mabe because mine are so young, maybe if I was way older? :no: don't think so.

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Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

:whistle:

************KISSTEET***********KISSTEET*********** bout something juicy

No badda wid dat...if sintin dem pon mi mind mi a go post it...mi wuda tell u fi go chuk aff a flat bridge, but u no know weh dat deh...anyways...

Ladies thanks for the advice....

There's a 12 year difference with me and my fiance....communication and patience is key! No biggie... ;)

Thank you... I was think that I was ONLY one with a young fiance from jamaica.

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Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

:whistle:

************KISSTEET***********KISSTEET*********** bout something juicy

No badda wid dat...if sintin dem pon mi mind mi a go post it...mi wuda tell u fi go chuk aff a flat bridge, but u no know weh dat deh...anyways...

Ladies thanks for the advice....

There's a 12 year difference with me and my fiance....communication and patience is key! No biggie... ;)

Thank you... I was think that I was ONLY one with a young fiance from jamaica.

You are not alone :no: I am older than my husband also :yes:

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Hmm I opened this up thinking it would be juicy then I think ONLY 13 years ... that isn't even worth posting .

I am a Californian and we don't even raise an eyebrow until the spouse is significantly younger than the kids

:whistle:

************KISSTEET***********KISSTEET*********** bout something juicy

No badda wid dat...if sintin dem pon mi mind mi a go post it...mi wuda tell u fi go chuk aff a flat bridge, but u no know weh dat deh...anyways...

Ladies thanks for the advice....

There's a 12 year difference with me and my fiance....communication and patience is key! No biggie... ;)

Thank you... I was think that I was ONLY one with a young fiance from jamaica.

Nope, I personally met two couples who had a 20+ age difference.

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good morning...got engaged a few months after knowing my fiance and filed for K-1 this month; I know we've not know each other for a long time at all, but we do communicate a lot (my cell) and I've been back to see him in Jamaica since meeting him the first time. We met 9/07, got engaged 11/07 we also have a 13 year age difference...I (female) 37 he 24. Just trying to calm my nerves.

Don't worry about it.I am 6 years older than my fiance and I used to babysit him back in the day. :blush:

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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It would be a little weird for me if I used to baby sit my spouse....no, I'm not saying it's wrong nor do I care..it's just a little much for me :thumbs:

mi 50cents..who 'ave some change fi gi mi ? :wacko:

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

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It would be a little weird for me if I used to baby sit my spouse....no, I'm not saying it's wrong nor do I care..it's just a little much for me :thumbs:

mi 50cents..who 'ave some change fi gi mi ? :wacko:

That's all right.It was strange for me at first also.lol

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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It would be a little weird for me if I used to baby sit my spouse....no, I'm not saying it's wrong nor do I care..it's just a little much for me :thumbs:

mi 50cents..who 'ave some change fi gi mi ? :wacko:

That is worth 45 cents. You get all of 5 cents back, Kimmie :lol::lol::lol::lol:

Support "OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE" Help a child go to school

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It would be a little weird for me if I used to baby sit my spouse....no, I'm not saying it's wrong nor do I care..it's just a little much for me :thumbs:

mi 50cents..who 'ave some change fi gi mi ? :wacko:

That is worth 45 cents. You get all of 5 cents back, Kimmie :lol::lol::lol::lol:

ahhahaa u galang..weh u deh

MOTIVATE A CHILD... SUPPORT OPEN ARMS FOR JAMAICA'S FUTURE, INC. WE NEED A BRIGHTER TOMORROW !!!!!!

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good morning...got engaged a few months after knowing my fiance and filed for K-1 this month; I know we've not know each other for a long time at all, but we do communicate a lot (my cell) and I've been back to see him in Jamaica since meeting him the first time. We met 9/07, got engaged 11/07 we also have a 13 year age difference...I (female) 37 he 24. Just trying to calm my nerves.

Hello,

I am 12 years older than my hubby. He's alot more mature at 26 then most American men I know at 40...lol. I wouldn't sweat it. Love knows no age difference. There will be times that you realize the age difference but for the majority of the time you will never think about it. Congrats on the engagement! Good Luck in the process! ~Rhonda~

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You will find a lot of folks here on VJ with large age differences. In our case it is 24 years. I think when you are dating across cultures the age makes less difference because you don't expect to have parallel cultural experiences anyway.

For instance, my future bride is far more mature than a comparable American woman of 21 simply because life and expectations for women in the Philippines are so much harder than here in the U.S.

04/01/2007: Met online

08/24/2007: First trip to the Philippines. 09/11/2007: Left Philippines...sad day

09/13/2007: Gathering info for I-129F

09/22/2007: Mailed I-129F. 09/26/2007: Delivery confirmation of I-129F

09/27/2007: NOA1 Notice Date

10/01/2007: I-129F Check Cashed

10/02/2007: Touched

10/04/2007: NOA1 received in the mail

10/23/2007: Second visit to Philippines

01/11/2008: NOA2 Approved!

01/14/2008: Touched

01/15/2008: Petition arrived NVC. 01/17/2008: Petition left NVC

01/18/2008: Date on NVC letter

01/18/2008: NOA2 Received in Mail

01/22/2008: Petition arrived in Manila @ 10:53 a.m., Signed for by Grace

01/22/2008: NVC letter arrived in the mail

01/24/2008: Found medical and interview dates on embassy web site

02/04/2008: Packet 4 received

03/04/2008: Medical Exam @ 6:30 AM

03/08/2008: Third trip to Philippines

03/13/2008: Interview @ 6:30 AM...APPROVED!!!

03/13/2008: CFO Seminar in Manila

03/17/2008: Visa released to Delbros

03/18/2008: Visa delivered to our hotel in Manila by Delbros @ 8:30 AM

03/19/2008: We fly home! POE Guam

04/10/2008: Applied for Social Security card

04/14/2008: Applied for marriage license

04/15/2008: Received Marriage license

04/17/2008: Received Social Security card

04/21/2008: Married!

05/01/2008: Applied for name change on Social Security card

05/15/2008: Pregnant!

05/25/2008: Mailed AOS

01/08/2009: AOS Approved!

01/16/2009: Green card arrived

01/20/2009: Our baby is born!

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You will find a lot of folks here on VJ with large age differences. In our case it is 24 years. I think when you are dating across cultures the age makes less difference because you don't expect to have parallel cultural experiences anyway.

For instance, my future bride is far more mature than a comparable American woman of 21 simply because life and expectations for women in the Philippines are so much harder than here in the U.S.

ROTFLMAO at your siggy :lol:

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Cases complete!Enjoying life!!

PM me if you have questions

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