Being real about marriage!!!

[ebonyqueen 0]

ebonyqueen,

Poor you! Why is the truth so painful to hear? . You have the right to say whatever you want, so do I. Catch ya.

Do I seem in pain? I think you are hilarious! Truth is in the eye of the beholder!

[Theone 0]

Like I said, poor you! Time will tell. Best of luck, you will need it.

[ebonyqueen 0]

Like I said, poor you! Time will tell. Best of luck, you will need it.

Yea...poor poor pitiful me... Oh ye of little faith! Thank you so much for your heartfelt good wishes I'm sure I'll remember your nonsense when I'm basking in the glory of my wonderful, sincere, loving, strong, proud Nigerian husband who posesses the integrity and godliness that all of your friends (99.9%) obviously don't have. Seems the green-eyed monster is rearing his ugly face. Didnt anyone ever tell you "god don't like ugly"?

Peace, Love and Happiness

AMEN

[apk 0]

I just want to comment, and say - these things happen right here. I never saw our situation as being any more risky than meeting, loving, and marrying someone from right here at home. The advice i read is good, and the risks that you actually never get out of a marriage what you put in are the same no matter where the person you love and marry is from.

Thank you for this comment. I also feel the same about relationships right here in this country. Sometimes I think you get to know someone a lot better after doing all of the paperwork and dealing with the seperation.

[Theone 0]

Ebonyqueen,

I guess you have never heard this saying, "speak the truth and the truth should set you free"

Like I said, poor you! Time will tell. Best of luck, you will need it.

Yea...poor poor pitiful me... Oh ye of little faith! Thank you so much for your heartfelt good wishes I'm sure I'll remember your nonsense when I'm basking in the glory of my wonderful, sincere, loving, strong, proud Nigerian husband who posesses the integrity and godliness that all of your friends (99.9%) obviously don't have. Seems the green-eyed monster is rearing his ugly face. Didnt anyone ever tell you "god don't like ugly"?

Peace, Love and Happiness

AMEN

[LovinLiberia 0]

Theone...your post reaks of jealousy and ignorance. You say you know Nigerian men and 99.9% of them are dogs and are marrying only for a greencard? Wow, you really get around! You have been thru alot of men to know they are all dogs! Maybe you are one of those women my nigerian friends have told me about. One that will not give a fellow nigerian man the time of day unless he has money! One that sleeps around and uses men for what they can get from them instead of seeing them for their true character. One who won't even consider a man who does not have wealth or come from wealth. One who looks at outer appearances instead of inner beauty. One who is greedy, materialistic, selfish, and pathetic. Hmmm...does that sound familiar? Oh sorry...maybe I am generalizing that 99.9% of nigerian women are like that!

I feel sorry for you if 99.9% of the nigerian men you know that marry an american, are dogs! Because 99.9% of nigerian men I know are NOT dogs, nor did they marry for the greencard! Granted you probably know more nigerians than I do, but obviously you hang out "with the wrong crowd".

So in closing just let me say... about 69.9% of American men are dogs! So I guess us women are the ones "sleeping with a dog". (Yes..I've done the research )

Theone...plz go away with your ridiculous comments. Stop hatin and start appreciatin!

Whew, great comeback!

I have tried and I have prayed but my patience and endurance could not stand to see this homophia continue. I am a Nigerian man and very proud to be so. You say you are wise, and you say that Nigerian men are dogs (99.9%), you say also that you know them very well. Now lets see, what made you get to know almost the entire population of Nigerian men? Maybe its somebody(you) else who is a dog. people who say stuff like you, do that because they would do so if given the opportunity. By the way you write, i know that you were not born here. So how did you get your own green card? They gave it to you as a Goodwill Ambassador to the UN?

We are supposed to be here to support and help each other positively. If you want to talk about any personal experiences, then go ahead and tell your story. Please do not lump all Nigerian men as dogs. Maybe you have family members who have told you they would sleep with dogs to come to America, then please be clear on that.

Enough is enough

Thank you ma brotha! (You must in the .1%..hahahaha) I hope more proud nigerian men stand up for their integrity. Maybe some of u need to rally your SO's to voice their opinions too!!!

I, too, felt proud for Nigerian men after I saw him defend his brothers. Thank you for daring to give your side of the story for your own people.

[Queen Jenn 0]

I, too, felt proud for Nigerian men after I saw him defend his brothers. Thank you for daring to give your side of the story for your own people.

[Ta Ta 1]

:thumbs: :thumbs:

[idocare 3]

Theone,

I would like to Thank-you for sharing your thoughts, please continue to post how you feel, it's funny that a certain group of people will come and attempt to attack you, a women from Africa who has a Nigerian husband. Don't they realize that it's you that have dated Nigerians and it's you that lived in that country around Nigerian men.

Oh, but look who's attacking you, it's people that would side with a Nigerian man for attacking a nigerian women, and these same people don't really know African men as well as you do, again they demonstrate there level of intelligence.

Theone, don't worry about such people, for they know not what they talk about.

[boo boo 1]

Theone,

I would like to Thank-you for sharing your thoughts, please continue to post how you feel, it's funny that a certain group of people will come and attempt to attack you, a women from Africa who has a Nigerian husband. Don't they realize that it's you that have dated Nigerians and it's you that lived in that country around Nigerian men.

Oh, but look who's attacking you, it's people that would side with a Nigerian man for attacking a nigerian women, and these same people don't really know African men as well as you do, again they demonstrate there level of intelligence.

Theone, don't worry about such people, for they know not what they talk about.

Do you realize how ignornant you sound?? I hope that one day you seek the wisdom and knowledge that you lack? Stop bashing Nigerians and Africans...it is tasteless. Noone has never ever said anything negative about nigerian women. You also sound that you are disrespecting Theone, I am sure that she has nigerian males in her family, so why would she disrespect her own people???? I do not understand why she would belittle anyone from Nigeria!

[LovinLiberia 0]

Idocare,

Just because she's a Nigerian living and dating among Nigerian men DOES NOT make her right. Just because we are in the USA means we know the ways of 99.9% American men? She may be an African woman, but she DOES NOT know them all.

[ebonyqueen 0]

idocare...theone...May I interest either of you in a glass of HATORADE?!!!! It seems to be a very popular beverage these days! CHEERS everyone! Bottoms up!

[LovinLiberia 0]

Do you offer any ANTI-HATORADE? If so, I'll take a glass of that on the rocks, please?

[Simply_Uno 1]

Do you offer any ANTI-HATORADE? If so, I'll take a glass of that on the rocks, please?

I'll have mine "shaken, not stirred"

[ebonyqueen 0]

lemon or lime?