please help me cause im very worried here. i didnt heard any from my husband since yesterday here. i call his landline and mobile phone but it just ring always no answer. we usualy chat at 9am phil. time but until now he is not online. we dont have any problem if we have problem he will open it up to me. i dont have any contact number of his friends or family just him. i dont know with the connection or sonethings. help me i dont know what other way i can contact him. need some advice. thanks . he live in columbia,maryland

What kind of help do you need? Your husband? hmm you don't have other contact numbers for him in U.S? That's kinda odd but maybe he is just busy, text his cell and make sure you get receipt saying that it's delivered then you can only wait. If you reach him ask his neighbors, parents and good friends phone numbers next time, you don't need to worry.

well just a thought, that we did have time change here and he may not expect to contact u for another hour,

thanks. yes i did already i send him a message to his mobile phone. but i just wonder just now it happen that i didnt heard from him.i keep calling his landline and mobile phone but no answer. yah i dont have any contact number to his friends,relatives and family just contact number of him . yah i wish he is ok and just busy.

thank you for the response. yah i hope so he will contact me soon

You should at least have contact number or email of his parents or sisters or brothers, or whoever really close to him.

LoL. If within 24 hours, I didn't have messages or calls from my husband or I can't reach him at all when I was still in the Philippines, I'm gonna really get mad at him, and I started calling his parents.

better call the police or 911

yah its been a 24 hrs. i didnt hear from him i keep calling but no answer and he is not online too. sad to know i dont have any contact number too from his friends and parents just contact number from him. i dont know what to do here im very worried here now.hope everything is ok. thanks for your message

Do you know where he is working? try to search the number of his company where he works. Or try to call the nearest Police Station in Columbia, Maryland where he lives.

thanks so much. yah i will. i will try to contact his company and maybe call a police station at his place.

I know how you feel... God bless you.

it happened to me before to when i was still in pi...my husband always text me and we always talk online too...after his text in the morning he never text me after that so i kept calling his phone and text him but nobody answered...good thing after 6 pm i received a text from him and he told me something happened to him.

same with you i never had any contact number from his family co he doesnt have anymore and i didnt have number from his friends or co-workers...so that time i didnt really know what to do but just to keep on calling and texting him.

hope he will contact you soon.

God bless.

I have a question:

Why would you not have contact with your husband's family, friends & co-workers?

My wife has phone numbers for many of my family, some of my friends, and my employer. She also has e-mail ym and facebook contact with many of them and some dive buddys.

if you know the full name of his parents you can search them at whitepage.com to get their home phone number.

yah were the same its been more than 24hrs, i didnt heard from him i keep calling until now but no answer still. i already call his bestfriend numbet thanks to google cause the contact number was there and still they dont have heard from my husband. hope he will contact me soon. i always pray to god that evrything will be ok.

yah its because of my compliance and to have a case like this. but thanks to god through google i found contact number of his bestfriend and i call them they didnt heard also from my husband. i hope my husband will contact me soon. yah next time i will ask all contact number of his family and close freinds in case like this.


thank you. yah i know the complete name of his mother. thanks for the info i will search it hopefully i can find contact number of them

come on, let's try to give helpful answers instead of ones that could start a fight.

for the op - if you know the names of his parents or siblings, i know of a few search engines you could run names through. you'll need first and last name and state for it to generate a list, the more unique the last name the better the results. in other words, "smith" will get you more pages than you can look at, but something unusual like "Jzkowskider" will get you a short list of results.

Relax. Take a deep breath and Pray.

Probably he just got tied up with something that's prolly the reason why he is not yet online. This happens.
Be patient.

Or, you can look for the hospitals or police stations around his area and you may try to call them and check if they have a patient or case in their record of your husband.

I understand your dilemma. It's freakin' scary.

Try to call the nearest police headquarters in his house, and ask them if they can check the house of your husband. Tell them that you are his wife and trying to contact him for more than 24 hours.

I just want to clarify that I was not trying to start any fight. It was an honest question. This is the second thread in like 1 week where a wife/fiancée in the PH was worried because she couldn't get in touch with her SO and had little or no contact information for his local friends/family.

posting that again just results in me making it invisible again. don't post it again.

thanks charles. and thank you so much guys who help me and post advices to me. AT this moment im still very worried and i didnt yet heard any from my husband

Charles, thanks... that post was not funny at all when viewed from her worried prospective... kudos!

personal attacks won't be tolerated. your post has been made invisible. let's not have a repeat performance.

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock

i'm sorry to hear this bad news.

This is not bad news, it devastatingly horrific. I am so sad to read of your beloved's demise. Call the consulate and ask them what your options are.

So sad.

My heart is with you.

Peace.

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock
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O my GOD.. I am so sorry to hear this..please try to be strong ... I wish someone here can give u advice, how u can go there to see him. this is so sad.. its hurts really..

God bless u and pray

I'm sorry to hear this very terrible news.
My prayers is all for your husband. This is so heart breaking.

Please be strong sweetie.

My heart breaks with yours.

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